120 surges/40 days week 2/day 1

[rockit]

Life is strange at times when it involves PUing. I walk into this little corner market today and there is this HB8 working there quite tall and quite built with a ring in her eyebrow. I mumble some sh** about wanting some eneryg blast while I am checking out her creditentials. I get this feeling that she wants to f*** me right now and all I have to do is play it. I didn't because I am not closing but if I was it would go something like this...

PUA: Your hot, let's go for a ride after you get off?
HB8: Where?
PUA: Out to the beach
HB8: No
PUA: Come on, it will be fun.
HB8: No, I don't want to
PUA: Look, you look really good and I want you right now
HB8: I am not going to the beach with you
PUA: Ok, then let's go for a cup of coffee
HB8: Ok

After she gets in my car I start driving towards the beach. I have used this before and it works because I know she wants me right now, I feel it, I know she feels what I am feeling, it's an instinctuall thing. Sometimes just being persisitant to break down their resistance works. Remember when you were a kid and you wanted a toy from your mommy and you kept bugging and bugging her until she gave in? In fact this method worked so well, I use to carry a blanket in the trunk of my car.

zan has a method, I believe where he gets the HB right now. How come you all waste time with all this methodolgy when you can be direct and just go for it? This is what we are working on in out lair group. Will post the details as they surface.

#1-HB10married-Gut feelings, there is a wire partition book display where you can see through above each level where the books are stackes. HB10 is on the other side walking back and forth looking at books, I am sitting and I could swear she is checking me out. Don't want to go for it but this HB is sizzle
ding.

Borders Books and P**** Store.

PUA: Walk past her, stop to her left...You know 51% of all books sold are romance novels?
HB8: Oh yea
PUA: Yea, they even out sell bibles, which are in Hotels and Motels
HB8: I don't know
PUA: There is a bible in every Hotel/Motel room in the U.S. That a lot of bibles
We fluff for about 5 more minutes and she doesn't seem in a hurry. I am not feeling her though, she didn't next me and seemed to be hiding her band. See what I mean about feeling her? If I was feeling her, she would have let here jucies flow. It's a Freudian thing, I think. It happened yesterday with the manager of a bank where I do my banking. I was feeling like I could have kissed her while we were in the Safe Deposit room without any resistance. (She has flirted with me before, but it seems too close to home). Bank managers jucies were flowing.


#2-HB7-Walking down an aisle towards the coffee shop and look back at HB7, she looks up (she is sitting) and glances at me as I continue to the coffee shop. On my way back I walk towards her but she is reading and didn't notice me. I go to the RR and on my way back walk past her, stop and...

PUA: I guess I could walk past you about 10 more times.
HB8: Laughs, Oh, I didn't notice you
PUA: Hi, how are you tonight
HB8: I'm ok, and how about you
PUA: I'm doing pretty good
HB8: Check this magazine out, it really funny, bla, bla
PUA: We fluff for about 10 minutes and I find out she is a pesonal trainer. She had that look of why don't you ask me out. I am not closing so I ejected shortly after.

#3-HBmadrid-doesn't speak much english. She is sitting in the coffee shop and the chair next to her is vacant. I drop down and open with...

PUA: Alright an empty chair and I get to sit next to a cute girl.
HB8: Thanks
It went logical after that for about 15 minutes, no BL, just a lot of fluff. She finally decides to go. She did introuduce herself before she left.

[Wayout]

All good shit!..Why arent you closing?..

PUA: Alright an empty chair and I get to sit next to a cute girl.

 
 Nice!..

[rockit]

All good shit!..Why arent you closing?..

 Nice!..

I been plowing in with closes like...are you single, what's your number and C&B a lot so, it was suggested that I go practice and don't close for a while.  If you go back to Week 1/Day 1 and read all my posts you will get a better feel of what I have been doing.  What's strange is that all the interactions in Week 2/Day 1 are the types of opeings I have been using for several years???.  I though I had to figure out an opening, duh again???  I am reading a book called Mastery by George Leonard, it's unbelievable how we have been programed since adolesence.  

From the book Mastery...

Chapter on...Tools for Mastery

(quote)...At our aidido school, a notice is placed on the bulletin board four times a year asking qualified students to sign up for ranking exams.  Some students sign immediately, while others wait until a few days before the exam.  It's instructive to watch the immediate surge of clarity and energy during training that comes from the simplest act of writing one's name on a notice.  Those who sign late suffer from having less time in which to enjoy the energy that flows from commitment.

The gift of an externally imposed deadline isn't always available.  Sometimes you ned to set your own.  But you have to take it seriously.  One way to do this is to make it public.  Tell people who are important in your life.  The firmer the deadline, the harder it is to break and the more energy it confers.  Above all else, move and keep moving.  Don't go off half cocked.  Take time for wise planning, but don't take forever.
"Whatever you can do, or dream you can---begin it, "
Goethe wrote.  "Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. (End quote)

Have you all started your own bootcamp today? Get the F*** up and get going. :evil:  Then post to this site (if you got balls ) so we can learn and give feedback.

[=SkyNet=]

when i said dont close i ment dont ask for her number . I encourage you to practice bridiging though. And while you are bridging if she agrees she will naturaly ask you for a number. Or you can make her ask you. Like "ok .. ill call you tommorow .." and she will say "you dont have my number"
 and you say "k, give it to me"

How come you all waste time with all this methodolgy when you can be direct and just go for it? This is what we are working on in out lair group. Will post the details as they surface.

cause direct shit is not 100% congruent. And if you do a quick lay they might get buyers remorse and you will never see them again. Also when you will meet the girl of your dreams i dought you will win her over with your direct game.

[rockit]

when i said dont close i ment dont ask for her number . I encourage you to practice bridiging though. And while you are bridging if she agrees she will naturaly ask you for a number. Or you can make her ask you. Like "ok .. ill call you tommorow .." and she will say "you dont have my number" and you say "k, give it to me"

Could you give me an example of bridging?  Would it be like, "It was fun talking to you, I am going to go for a bike ride on Saturday want to come along?"

 How come you all waste time with all this methodolgy when you can be direct and just go for it? This is what we are working on in out lair group. Will post the details as they surface.

cause direct shit is not 100% congruent. And if you do a quick lay they might get buyers remorse and you will never see them again. Also when you will meet the girl of your dreams i dought you will win her over with your direct game.

Good point. Thanks for the feedback. Your teaching me a lot.  I hate to get all mushy, wtf, thanks again.

[=SkyNet=]

Close but thats not how bridging is done (or at least solid bridge). What you said is good but should be used as a last resort cause you have no idea if she likes to ride a bike maybe she hates bikes ... and you only have 1 chance at this you cant say .."oh .. you dont like bikes .. well then what about rollerblading .." . Also if there is no comfort between you too this will probably not work either

To build a bridge you have to talk to her first and find out what she likes, then you pretend or be senciere that you like the same thing as her and you should do it together tommorow , that way you can both enjoy it together. Remeber i gave you example of the bridge in one of your FRs

[rockit]

Close but thats not how bridging is done (or at least solid bridge). What you said is good but should be used as a last resort cause you have no idea if she likes to ride a bike maybe she hates bikes ... and you only have 1 chance at this you cant say .."oh .. you dont like bikes .. well then what about rollerblading .." . Also if there is no comfort between you too this will probably not work either

To build a bridge you have to talk to her first and find out what she likes, then you pretend or be senciere that you like the same thing as her and you should do it together tommorow , that way you can both enjoy it together. Remeber i gave you example of the bridge in one of your FRs

ok, I remember, I printed the post.  I just can't remember where it is.  I go a stack of paper, everywhere.  I think I need to be reminded of what I am doing.  First worked on changing my opener, next qualify, three bridge.  That is bunches of changes, you good mentor, me learning fast.  Gots lots to work on.  way, skynet.