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« on: July 03, 2005, 02:13:24 AM »
Yesterday I got this feeling like I graduated. Like I realised some mysterious truth of life. I understood that I have a loosers mentality. A wussie, excuser, whatever... Few days ago I got my exams mark. I did ok. More than ok. I will graduate as one of the top students in my school. But you know what? I could have easily been number one. For a past few years I've missed about one fird of all lessons. If not more. If I were ordinary student, I would have been droped out of school. But I won various competitions years after years. Until some real challenge would appear and the lack of work would show. Lack of discipline. That's my biggest problem. I was giving up at first real challenge. No more. Discipline is now a top priority.
I've been lurking in masf for a few years. It has obviously changed my life. I am a much better person now. More funnier, more interesting and overall more satisfied with my life. I've even stopped drinking. That was a really hard thing to do for me. I think I am addicted to that shit... I haven't done any real cold approach in my life though. To be exact I haven't done any warm approach too. No more excuses. More sarging. More fun. More discipline.
I guess I will be lacking behing you, but I'll try to catch up. It's summer... The weather is sweet and I have a lot of free time... Lots of places to see, girls to do... I will write my first fr soon. Like today or tommorrow morning.
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« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2005, 04:25:36 AM »
Hey man,

Cold approaching can be quite scary at first.  But once you've done it - you'll feel like a million bucks.  I suggest trying to meet up with someone in your area from mASF... someone who can push you to do a cold approach.  Good luck.
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« Reply #2 on: July 03, 2005, 10:39:34 PM »
Yeah... Good idea. I'll contact through PAIR with everyone in my country and see what happens. Too bad that the community is kinda weak here. The nearest lair is in another country... The good news is that there are at least some people who might help.
Yesterday I've made my first cold approaches. Rrrr.... So scary at first... Actually I just asked what time is it. Even THAT was scary. I was shaking at first two approaches. Weak voice, lot's of gestures, you know, whole package. But I felt "like a million bucks" after I've done that. Even though I got rejected (how can you get rejected asking what time is it? weird) it didn't matter. I simply didn't care. I was like a machine from then. Approach. Approach. Approach. No fear! 2 sets, 4sets, mixed sets, it didn't matter. Apprrrrrroach.
Today I'll try out something more challenging. I was thinking about false time constrain + blonde hair opener. Any other suggestions?
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« Reply #3 on: July 13, 2005, 06:29:58 AM »
I think it will take me about two more weeks to overcome the fear. I don't drop my state because of rejection, but approaches are still a problem. Now I am just being friendly and don't do actual picking up. For me mission is now to overcome fear, not to get laid. I like to talk to strangers. It's allways a new little adventure. Sorry for not posting approaches, they are simply irrelevant as the only thing that matters now to get my brains addapted to talking to strangers and the only way I see it possible is by talking with them.

Oh and about that discipline thing. Everyday I force myself to do more and more :) I go out more and more. I meet more people. It's all fun. Now I wake up at about 12 - 13 h. Wait untill evening (it's to hot for me to go out in the daytime, I got sweaty and thirsty) and then go out with my friends or alone. Come home about 2-4 h.

I'll keep you informed about my progress.
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« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2005, 08:48:19 AM »
My first fuckin real cold aproach!!!! :) I am still smiling now :)  It was a 2set.

Me: I have to go in a sec, but I need female opinion.
They: Yes.
Me: Me and my friend argued about who lies more men or women? What do you think?
Girl1: Men.
Me: Damn.... I think I have lost. What do you think? (to girl2)
Girl2. Men, for sure.
Me: Fuck. OK, thanks. See ya.
They: Bye bye.

It looks so simple now. But it took me few hours to approach a set.  It feels so great to overcome fear. I KNOW it will be easier next time. Damn, even now I am better than 50% of mASFers :D I am the master of approaches!!!!! I am the mother fuckin' PIMP!!!! The DRAGON SLAYER!!! You got my point.... :)
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« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2005, 08:50:42 AM »
Earlier I wrote that I meet more and more people. That's true, but they were all from my social circle. Sorry if I got you confused.
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« Reply #6 on: July 16, 2005, 11:19:00 PM »
Just checked my investments, that's a sad view... Very dissapointed, but  I'll survive.
Anyway... Yesterday I went out with 4 of my friends. I was in a really fucked up mood. I wanted to sleep, but the discipline got me going.  We were just joking around, laughing - everything was as usual. But doing the same years after years... This shit gets boring. It's cool to go out with your buds from time to time, but allways... I don't know... I want to meet some girrrrls. After some time we seperated. My best friend and I went to beach party. I love it.... Crowd of people dancing on the sand.... Good DJs, good music. We danced for some time with my old friends, but they had to leave soon. There was a 2set (HB7 - nice body, but not that cute face and HB6 - a bit worster body) dancing near us.
Ta-G: Let's dance with them?
Friend: Sure. They are better than nothing....
I hestitated for about 30 seconds and then went straight in the middle of set.
Ta-G: Hi. Can we join you? (I know, lame...)
Girls: OK
HB7: My name is HB7 (extending her arm)
Ta-G: Ta-G. Pleasure (shaked hands in a girly handshake)
HB6: HB6
Ta-G: Ta-G (shaked hands in a girly handshake)
Friend: Hey, I want it too... (they ignored him at first, I don't think they were bitchy, probably didn't noticed him)
They greeted.
Friend: Where are you from?
HB7: Where do you want us to be from? (smilling)
Friend: Oh ok... (I hate it... He allways thinks that everybody wants to make fun of him) Then we are from Vilnius... (our capital)
HB7: We live near Vilnius.
We danced for a bit in silence. Not talking, I mean. I am thinking "damn, we need to talk or to escalate kino"
Ta-G: Hey, I need female opinion.
Girls: Yeah?
Ta-G: Who lies more men or women?
HB7: I don't know.... It depends...
Ta-G: That's for sure, but still... Make a generalization.
HB6: Men.
HB7: Men.
Ta-G: OK. And who lies better?
Girls: Women.
Ta-G: (looking at my friend) You see? Told ya...
Friend: Damn...
HB7: Oh, it's not allways like this... Sometimes it's opposite.
Ta-G: OK....
HB7: I am lying, again... So it's equal.
Me thinking: I hope none of my friends saw us dancing... They are really bad looking. (It is so stupid. I should have stayed in this set)
Ta-G: I need to go, I am so hungry. See ya.
We left.

I am getting more and more confident every time I go out. Do you?
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« Reply #7 on: July 17, 2005, 11:45:03 AM »
nice aproach ...
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Me thinking: I hope none of my friends saw us dancing... They are really bad looking. (It is so stupid. I should have stayed in this set)


thats a really bad mentality, you shouldnt care what they think. Remember if you think you are the shit and whatever you do is great then everyone else will think that too..

so you are from Lithuania ?
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« Reply #8 on: July 18, 2005, 07:17:01 AM »
Just woke up. It's 17.00 here... Yesterday I graduated from school. It's over now. After 12 years it's finally over.  After ceremony we had a huge private party in a club. I knew all the graduates, most of them are really interesting individuals, I knew some of their parents too. It was really cool to see them dancing, laughing, socializing with each other all nigh long. Too bad I was sad... I don't know why. I woke up sad. I was trying to brake the state by joking, dancing (learned some new cool moves), talking, but it only worked temporary. It was so tempting to get drunk... Then the club closed me, 3 close friends and an ex teacher had a small after party in the teachers house. We were busting each other about the mess in her house, about the lack of food, about her cat, about lots of small things that happend. Finally I felt happy again. And sleepy. Good times...

I have noticed that  then I am interacting I just can't be sad. I am allways joking, telling stories about my life, busting people about small stuff, to put it simply - riding the vibe. Probably that's why I don't have any enemies. Most of people like me. But sometimes it's hard for me to start talking with some persons as I am not interested in them. I know they are fucked up in their heads even more than I am. Like really really fucked up. Allways negative, allways blaiming something, anti social... You know what I am talking about.

Oh, and I have noticed that I have more interesting material to talk about than most of people. I can talk about how I used to live in the school, how my "me and 2 of my friends birthday party" turned out to be 40 drunk peoples orgy in my house with smithereens, puke, blood, condoms everywhere, how I was driving the car and it caught fire and I didn't noticed for a while and I could have exploded, how me and two of my punk friends went to jazz festival in another city, got drunk and we were late for the bus so I ended up sleeping on the beach, how we went to a new club to see erotic program and there were only guys stripping an so on and so on...

And  yes, I live in Lithuania.  
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 thats a really bad mentality, you shouldnt care what they think. Remember if you think you are the shit and whatever you do is great then everyone else will think that too..
I know I shouldn't be thinking that way, but because of my really fucked up childhood I am very insecure guy. Personal improvement is of the reasons  why I am in the game.

Just got sms. I am invited in a small party.  There will be only old friends, but  maybe that's  just what I need now. See ya.
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« Reply #9 on: July 19, 2005, 07:57:30 AM »
I have two really important questions for all of you.

1) How can you keep this lifestyle and still be emotionally stable?  I was going out, partying, being very social everyday for about two weeks, but this whole emotional roller-coaster got me. Three days in a row I have really fucked up mood. If I keep going out for some more time I'll  probably have nervous breakdown. I don't know... It reminds me times when I used to drink everyday all week long, then get depressed so I would drink some more until I ran out of money...  Ahhh....  "Sweet" memories... :) Maybe I should try some new age stuff. Like going into my cave and finding my power animall...  :D No, really. How do you cope with this exhausting, yet very rewarding lifestyle?

2) I've got an sms from a girl I sarged a month ago. She asks if she can come visit me  and if I could find where to stay for a night. Oh... And she was writing all month long how much she likes me, and how she misses me, and how much she wants to see me. I think I can easily lay her, but I don't want to break her heart. She is a virgin, so she probably is dreaming about LTR with her prince charming... I don't want to be in a monogamous relationship now... What would you do? She lives like 100 km. from me, but I don't want to lie and cheat on her. Fuck... Help please.
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« Reply #10 on: July 19, 2005, 05:37:37 PM »
nice shit man ..i myself came from latvia 5 years ago .. ..still love that place more then here ..now on to your questions

1) First it seems to me like you have some inner game issues that you need to take care of first. Is your problem that you are tired of surging every day and having fun ? well you dont have to ! do what you like this is not something you use up your whole life on. This is just something you do .
.. If your problem is that while you surge you dont come off sincere or as yourself and that's killing your mood then you need to do some rework on your inner game..

2) What would i do ? :) well i would tell her to come over then i would lay her then in the morning i would tell her that we need to do that again some time and send her on her way. Or the best way is to just tell her before hand that you are not looking for a relationship right now and that the interaction with her wont go further then physical (this worse cause if you tell her that before sex she might reject you ..) .. but in these kinde of situations its better to just flat out say the truth. It sounds mature and alpha and she will respect that (cause regular guys are not so bald).
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« Reply #11 on: July 30, 2005, 11:51:21 PM »
Thanks for the tips.

She couldn't come this week, because of a genuine reason.  There were many people from television staying in our house, so I could choose between sleeping in the kitchen or sleeping at my friends place. So I drove to see this girl and sleep at her place. Hmmm.... Her grandparents place, to be more exact...  

I met her around 23 h. so it was quite dark. She was all excited to see me, all hugy and shit. I told her to get bikini as we are going for a swim. She introduced me to her brothers and their friends. I just fluffed in a deep, resonanting voice, called them "bad", and in  seconds they were qualifying themselves. It's all cool, I complimented them for a cool place, for some other shit, and they were talking and talking and talking... I was a bit worried not to overqualify myself. All in all they made 90% of conversation, I just spitted some random phrases to keep the conversation going. She came back ready to go.

We went to the river holding hands. Swimmed a bit, I took her hands while talking in a slow seductive voice random shit like ("I like to swim..., Come here..., Mhhhhhhmmmm......, I will come her morrre often...) totally gunwitch style... We hugged, I pressed my forehead into hers, eskimo kissed and then it escalated to a real kissed. I ended it by falling into the water.

Soon I said that we should go to my car, because it's cold. I told her to towel down me. She did this very slowly and then we changed. Through the towel it was great to feel her neck, shoulders, back, legs... I had a real boner then.

We sat in the front seats of my car.We were massaging each others palms, hands and she was talking about zodiac signs, her familly, about herself... I mostly agreed, shared some of my experience. She was talking and talking. Most of the time I was thinking - damn, I want to fuck her...just look at her ass, at her breast...when she will shut up? At one point she said: "You are probably thinking that I am too talkative..." I'm like "No, babe... I like the sound of your voice... It's cute... Keep it going... I am saying everything I have in my mind..." And then we were in silence for about a minute. Lol. She talked more... While I was thinking, damn I need to get closer and to start kissing, but I can't make  this look naturally. Oh well... Went for a kiss anyway. She was very receptive. And I said, let's go to the backseats, it will be more comfortable. She agreed.

We started to make out. I stroke her neck, her back, her ass. She started to breath heavily, I stroke her breasts, started kissing her neck... I untied her bra and told her to take it off... She has so fuckin beautifull breasts. I licked them, then took her head in my both arms, looked at her eyes and went for a very sensuall kiss. But this car thing... It is very uncomfortable... We tried to get ourself comfortable, but there is no way she could get in a classic or missionary pose. ( She is a virgin, so it will hurt less in those poses). She sat in my lap and I was feeling her ass... My hand went down, I was allmost touching her pussy, but I couldn't reach it, because she was sitting on my lap, I started to rub her anyway, and we started to dry-thumping... I touched her pussy through her undervear, and she was really wet... It's all cool, but it wasn't going anywhere, so I said fuck it, let's come back.

We came back to her house, invited her brothers, talked for a while... I needed to go back early in the morning so I went to sleep. Alone, damn it. She didn't want her grandparents to see us in the same bed. Anyway, nice experience...
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« Reply #12 on: August 01, 2005, 06:30:22 PM »
Awesome FR Ta-G.  Keep us posted as the eventual lay unfolds...

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« Reply #13 on: August 10, 2005, 06:55:57 AM »
Damn this bootcamp thing.... I still can't approach and I would have droped everything, but you fuckers... I made a promise. I should have thought twice before making it :D

Really, I want to thank arizona PUAs for it. Because of this bootcamp I forced myself to go out a lot more than usual and even if I only met new people through my social circle it is a step forward for me.

Yesterday I had a really beautiful experience because of it... I found a girl, who I could tottaly connect with on so many different levels that it still amazes me. We spent all night talking to each other, sharing experiences, laughing, hugging... It was so pure and so naturall... Amazing...

Really, thank you.
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« Reply #14 on: August 24, 2005, 01:58:03 AM »
Hi everybody

You know what, I feel amazing today. I felt amazing yesterday and a day before too. My game has never been tighter before. Like yesterday I met a friend. He had this girl with him... A reall HB.  Cute face, ass, breast... Whole package. It's obvious he wants her. He buys her drinks, drives her, but we all know he will never get her. He is a really great guy and the last thing I want to hurt his feelings. So I tried so hard not to pick her up.... I really tried, but it's so hard... It's so hard NOT to be cool, connect and escalate. Soon she was showing so blatant IOIs that everybody have noticed... I felt bad for my friend, but at the same time it was so validating... It's like alchohol for me. I had to force myself to leave earlier.

I am living the best days of my life. It's getting better and better. I am getting and better. Amazing.

Guys, who can't approach. There is a little concept called "Law of averages".  The more shots you take, the more chances there is for you. Even if you didn't approach nobody today or yesterday go out one more day, and then one more day and one more. Expose yourself to the chances. Get a habit of going out everyday. No matter how fearfull it is eventually you will start approaching. Don't expect overnight results. But if you go out everyday with approaching in mind you will do it. It worked for me. Go out. Go out. Go out. Discipline.
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