Ok anyway... I got my exams now and got a good school for next year
So I have some times for myself (it is the holidays hehe)
I will try to finish the asignments I haven't finished yet. I will start again with week 2... but I am mostly trying to create a Routine Stack.. (because I already do a lot of these things like BL/busting/etc..).
I think the problem lies in my opener (Blond Hair opener). It opens 100% of the time, but it is hard to bust on the answers... I can't go "WHAT??? You want me to dye my hair blond??? Wow you are a badgirl!!". I mean it would be nonsense...
Most of the time they tell me I should stay brown because of my blue/green eyes... I need to find a busting/C&F for this.
Maybe if they say "You are already cute this way" I could go with "Okay you are so cuuute too, you are my new future ex-girlfriend.. wait can you cook??" blabla... But I think it would be too soon to do this just after the opener... Maybe I could adopt them as little sister / bubble wrap? I need to fieldtest this...
So I must either find another cool opener... OR... find a transition with blond hair opener
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I did 2 sets on sunday with my wing Phenix:
Sunday Street PU:We were walking since 1 hour looking for sets / excusing ourselves when we did not approach ("oh no too old"/"oh no she is not coming from in front of us we can't open indirect"/blabla)... when I finally grabed my balls and opened this 2set in a mall near the streets: 2 cute blonds girl, with make up / fashion clothes (both 7.5 I think). They weren't walking from the opposite direction from us, but it still worked (most of time I open while passing girls coming from the opposite direction...).
I did blond opener... I talk a little about my hear blabla... They say I should not dye them blabla...
Now HERE is where I eject most of the time, because I don't know how to TRANSITION and keep the convo going WITHOUT trying for rapport. I mean I could go "what's your name?", "where are you from?", etc.. but then I would be TRYING for rapport...
Well I broke this rule this time anyway:
"How do you know eachothers??"
They were friends since 15 years!!! So I tought: ok! let's try this bestfriend test! hehe:
Me: "You know what? I knew that
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Them: "How?"
Me: "ok I have a test... do you both ...use ...the same shampoo???"
Here they looked at eachother (I think they didnt do it before, but this question MADE them look at eachother!).
I finish it and I am ASTONISHED by the reactions! They are giggling like mad! WTF!?! It works? Wow.
I add the part about using some little strap mirrors for christmas and they laugh harder!! I was so proud. Lol.
I then thanked them and ejected. I was happy because I did a lot of pauses while speaking, I had tight BL (turning away when they where turning away, not leaning in... etc..), and I made them laugh so much.
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I then did blond opener + best friend test on another set in the street Les Champs Elysees, but they were shyer, and I did not get the same reaction... but still nice...
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BTW, I forgot to talk about one approach I did on my trip in Ireland lol:
I was walking along the beach, thinking about the "Dental Floss Opener". But the thing is... I did not know what "flossing" meant :p So I asked a 2set and now I know (BTW I never did this flossing thing!! I only brush!!).
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Okay guys, I will try to keep you updated. I did my 2 "busting on mannerism" sets for this week. I will use the best friend test again if I open another 2set.
I now need to find more neutral rapport material, to transition into after I open.
Maybe little sister/bubble wrap routine (which seems cool), or Cs vs Us (if I can deliver it).
See you guys!
