Looking for some feedback on the following that we have been working on in our lair meetings. Well, specifically I have my own NLP trainer who doesn't charge me and is working with me on a new system...One call close.
We call our system...Special Operations (Special Ops) or Officers Trainning School
This is how it works and I have started to implement the system.
1. Email or Phone number
2. Invite over---Phone scenerio...calls made after 9:00p.m. or if logistics are a SP then 8:30p.m.
PUA-Hi it's xxxxx, how are you?
HB-Fine, how are you?
PUA-I'm good, (think of something to say to build attraction and arousal)
PUA-I was thinking about you and I would really like to see you, why don't you come over.
HB-I don't think so, or yes, or maybe or wtf?
PUA-Yes, ok well wear something sexy. No, ok well I have to go, I have some other things to do....(make another call but don't tell her that jethrow) maybe some other time. Get off the phone.
HB-See ya in a bit or talk to you later or...
What ever the outcome if she doesn't bite, you then tape edit and future pace, for the next time you call in 7-10 days with the same exact scenerio.
3. Build Inventory
4. List for day of week
5. Some will accept, some won't, next
6. Spend quality time with the ones that accept
7. Reward good behavior-only doing things when I feel like doing them.
8. Overcome old programing
9. Same routine with each girl...Practice.
10. Focus is Attraction & Arousal
Do not talk about relationships. No dating on the weekends.
The idea is that if you talk about relationships it kills sexual tension. If you meet her for coffee for the first time in person you do the same routine as the phone convo. Juggler has a couple of cool one call close routines. You keep up the routine until she comes over or quits. She will usually come over after the 3rd phone call although one HB I am working on and have had her lay on my bed several times but then changed up to one call close is on her 4th phone call tomorrow.
If the phone call gets a "no" response tape edit in your mind the phone convo that got a no into a yes in your mind. You didn't get a "yes" because you had a different outcome in your sub-conscious mind and that is the outcome you got.
Future pace the outcome you want in the next phone convo before you make the call and practice it over and over again until your sound and her sound become natural to you.
From Chariot @
www.realsocialdynamics.comAlways assume that it is on
Think of the most RETARDED, SILLY thing to say to a girl (not anything sexual or disgusting)...For example: "My dad has three green cats and one pink one."
Walk up to a girl and spit your retarded line as an opener then just sit there-totlly unreactive.
If she runs away -you DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT MIX
If she looks super weirded out-you DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT MIX
However, if she asks What? Huh? Say that again? or laughs-you're good, congratulations-you project high value.
NOW this also teaches us that the game is not VOCAL based...it's what you are projecting that matters. I used to want the BEST lines to say, the best stories, the best routines...but I wasn't focusing on what I was projecting...
That's why this whole INDIRECT vs DIRECT opening thing is bulls-word. They both work, in different logistical contexes...For example, I'd rather stop a moving street set with an opinion opener rather than "HEY, my name's Tim."
Having said that, "Hey, my name's Tim" has worked for me countless times because I'm projecting the right things...in my tonality, my presence, my directness-I honestly do not care.
