How to run Party Game

[=SkyNet=]

Ok .. so there i was  again .. a typical college party.. shit load of people in a house with music playing .. (well not really typical it was halloween so even harder then ussual since everyone is peakocked). So here is the problem that most of the guys at the party have ..

you may be the shit and you are peackocked and have great CF skills you bust on them and neg them but then something happens and they walk away (its either they are bored with you or maybe their friend showed up or maybe they seen their friend or their friend aproached etc ..)  .. i am sure you all experienced this ..  ..heh .. thats what the whole party consists of, guys coming up and saying "hi" to girls , they do 2 or 3 funny coments and then they either are blown out and ignored or they go see their other friends... You may talk to everyone and be the life of the party (hell you may even make out with someone) but in the end you will have nothing..

now here is a rutine that will make them stay with you hopefully longer. Developed by me and field tested tonight . .. so far worked everytime, heh like 3 gus got this girls attention, even her friends but she stayed with me all the way through..

best to use on "all girl" sets or lonewolf targets. Also best used in a slow corner of the party (not on a dance floor or the middle of the action)

me: hey girls what up (some opener ..)
hb: hahahah .. my name is HB10
me: some small talk (CF/ Neg/Cold read)
me(10 seconds into convo): .. you know i just realized something , i came here knowing only 3 people or so and here i think to myself i am at a party this is where people meet each other. And here i am trying to meet people at a party and to my surprise its not working at all. I would see some person who i might want to get to know better i would start talking but then they friend would just drag them away... ...or some guy would interupt us with something original like "hey!! whats up guys how is the party !!"
hb: i know its so wierd
me: ... its impossible to have a good intelegent conversation with people. It has to be like everyone elses: short and not interesting
hb: ..blah blah
me: [now you can start gaming her ->run rutines, mini games , stories etc] you can also add "will you be my party friend for tonight?" ..

recomended topics for parties
-how guys make out with chicks and think they are the shit when in reality they are just bieng tooled (<-shows you know the game)
-play the 'whats his stereotype' game
-play 'best way to flirt game'

basicly what this does it makes her qualify to you... They will agree with what you are saying cause its the truth and since they admited its bad they cant just go and ditch you later since that would contradict their belief. This also gets them out of the "i am a party girl" mood and slows them down to talk to you instead of doing autopilot gigling responces.

..enjoy

[mad_max]

Interesting!
=Skynet= wrote:

You may talk to everyone and be the life of the party (hell you may even make out with someone) but in the end you will have nothing..

You can actually get a girl to kiss you by daring her to do it with enough confidence(I've done it twice, and both times worked!), but that itself won't get you anywhere(i did not f-close either). For girls, making out in parties is normal, they are in the mood. After all, they want to have a story to tell their friends too (I have actually asked this to an HB) So, I guess this goes along with your first reccomended topic "how guys are tooled by girls."

I like the third recommended topic. I was once talking to a gilr about the ways how guys and girls flirt with each other, and the conversation was very fun. My knowledge of the game helped me make good points and gave her the impression I've been with a lot of girls. This is an awesome topic, you can make fun of lame pick up lines social/smart proof yourself.

Now, would you expand more on the second recommended topic? Kool post!

[shepdawg99]

I was at the same party with Skynet and he definitely hooked a hottie with this one.

I tried to use it on a few other girls at another party where he and I started out.  I found it very easy to isolate chicks using this tactic.  I would get their attention and say that that it is impossible to have a conversation with people at parties, then they would agree.  Then it would be a lot easier to move them to a quiet location.

I isolated this one chick and we were out back on a couch absolutely no one was around, but then Mario and Luigi came up while I was having a convo with this chick.  I was still trying to develop attraction.  Mario distracts me talking about the football game and then Luigi starts feeling up the chick that I was gaming.  Literally grabbing her crotch, I was shocked by the situation, but basically I just grabbed her hand and we left, then she wouldn't leave her friends for the rest of the night.  What would you guys do in that situation?

[Wayout]

This last weekend with all the parties happening around college campuses was a real eye opener. I was in the same boat as you guys...desperatly trying to keep some girl attention on me.
 Skynet...what if after you routine you find out that she is attached,has bf right there at the party or just boring?..Do you bail on her after your spiel about how hard is it si to meet people.  :lol:
  The way I see it...there are better times ( like day game) to meet hot women.

[=SkyNet=]

I was at the same party with Skynet and he definitely hooked a hottie with this one.

I tried to use it on a few other girls at another party where he and I started out. I found it very easy to isolate chicks using this tactic. I would get their attention and say that that it is impossible to have a conversation with people at parties, then they would agree. Then it would be a lot easier to move them to a quiet location.

hahah .. nice to see you use this material right away.. i didnt think you would.
 

I isolated this one chick and we were out back on a couch absolutely no one was around, but then Mario and Luigi came up while I was having a convo with this chick. I was still trying to develop attraction. Mario distracts me talking about the football game and then Luigi starts feeling up the chick that I was gaming. Literally grabbing her crotch, I was shocked by the situation, but basically I just grabbed her hand and we left, then she wouldn't leave her friends for the rest of the night. What would you guys do in that situation?

amog them .. then make sure you make a bridge to some fun thing to do the next day. Then continue the convo, so if shit like that happens (her friends take her away then you already have bridge set up). Also if she is with her friends its a great apportunity to demonstrate value. Start gaming her friends, make sure all of her friends like you and ignore her .. then before you leave isolate (say you are leaving as you are almost out of the door yell her name so she would come by herself say some afc shit like " it was a real pleasure meeting you .. dont forget we are going grocery shopping tommorow ).

wayout:

 Skynet...what if after you routine you find out that she is attached,has bf right there at the party or just boring?..Do you bail on her after your spiel about how hard is it si to meet people.

dont bail, if she is hot she will make great social proof for you later on. Plus you practiced your material. And like you said .. you can always just say .. "hold up i am going to go to the bathroom"

[*shanghai]

=SkyNet=,
I seem to be getting pretty good at getting girls in the room to chase me. In fact I need to push it even more because I am still thinking "Awww this can't really be workng this well.." but it is.

Here is what I would do at a party, When I walk in I make sure that I Talk to someone right away  girl or guy it dosent matter.  But usually its a guy. I need the guys on my side. I approach all the girls/groups of girls and open them bust on them so they laugh or demonstrate that I am bold and leave before they leave. I stay in each set a very short time and make a round of the room and make sure everybody knows me except if there is a really hot girl there that is definitly my target. I won't approach her right away. I want to see other giys hit on her and how she reacts and assess who she is with.

After round one, every set has been opened and i can re-open the ones I like at a slower pace. I break rappor as much as possible and do a LOT of take aways "Your fucking awesome, I cant believe were getting along so good ...I have to get away from you!!!" Bam, I'm gone and she's like " where did he go???"  I do this until they are chasing me in some way. I am focus more on being talkative and social rather than hitting on girls. I am also having a good time. The girls percieve this as "He's a confident guy who isn't hitting on the girls here"

I have a day-2 with a girl who said during the set, "Your the first non-creepy guy who is not just tring to fuck us!"  :wink:

As the night goes on I narrow the target(s) down and then start to isolate and comfort build. I set up a day-2, 2/3rds of the way into the interaction/night so that after I set it up and get the # we still can interact and deepen the connection. This helps reduce the flake rate.

Souds like you have solid day-game but are getting stuck at parties. My day-games weak but I'm pretty good at parties.

[=SkyNet=]

interesting idea .. ill try it next time .. the problem with parties is that no one really talks to each other for more then 10 minutes. Ofcourse it all depends on the envirment. When i had a fake id for 2 weeks i did preaty good at clubs  .. ..but now i am back to day2 and party game ..

hmm you have interesting idea since you convey that you are not hitting on them while mine focuses more on a single set yet they probably do know that i am hitting on them. But how do you actually keep them around?
    I used to do a similar thing at parties (just saying a quick hi to everyone then ejecting) but the i fall into the i am a party guy mood that entertains everyone. .. but i never got a chance to isolate...

[*shanghai]

But how do you actually keep them around?

Thats my point...I'm not trying to keep them around. I do LOTs of false take away as well as real walk aways (always at a high point), while having a great time talking shit.

They end up trying to keep ME around... see?

I engage each group for longer periods of time as the night goes on. If I try to keep someone around when I first meet them it can be an uphill battle to maintain it. Not always, but this is just a method I have been using, and it works for me.

[Chased1k]

I isolated this one chick and we were out back on a couch absolutely no one was around, but then Mario and Luigi came up while I was having a convo with this chick. I was still trying to develop attraction. Mario distracts me talking about the football game and then Luigi starts feeling up the chick that I was gaming. Literally grabbing her crotch, I was shocked by the situation, but basically I just grabbed her hand and we left, then she wouldn't leave her friends for the rest of the night. What would you guys do in that situation?

Those are my boys...   i prolly would have gone for the gay card, "you guys are like perfect for each other, did you pick out the hats?" Big smile*  dont let one distract you while the other talks to your girl, you hold the frame therefore you hold court.  everyone should be focusing on you, there are no side conversations.  

Another technique i like to use in crazy fast paced parties like this is be ADD.  have fun introduce differnt people to different people(forgot to do this at last party), catagorize them quickly and have fun with it, tell them.  be like hey gangster girls did you see the thug guys over there cmon, we gotta show them whos territory it is or whatever.  ask if they saw the stripper give a lap dance.  but then be off talking to someone else lose focus with out even realizing it, soon eveyone will know youre around then its always easier to talk.  looks like youre having fun too.    

sky, sounds like the party turned out well, its good to hear.  especially with that crazy costume.... i didnt know if it was possible to peacock at that party but you showed me a way.  when i get out to see light again, we will have to do it again.

[Moe Joe]

But how do you actually keep them around?

Thats my point...I'm not trying to keep them around. I do LOTs of false take away as well as real walk aways (always at a high point), while having a great time talking shit.

They end up trying to keep ME around... see?

I engage each group for longer periods of time as the night goes on. If I try to keep someone around when I first meet them it can be an uphill battle to maintain it. Not always, but this is just a method I have been using, and it works for me.

^^^totally agree.

College parties like these seem very similar to hi-energy club settings.  That's why I don't like Skynet's routine.  IMO its too much EXPLAINING.  The solution in these environments is to be MORE ADD than the girls are.  Make them chase you.  The routine Skynet posted conveys that he is chasing them = they have high value (no offense man, just the way it reads to me).

[=SkyNet=]

hmm.. my rutine does work  but i do agree with you that its to long. And it doesnt work good with big groups. Perhaps using both strategies will yeld best results. First do Shanghai's stuff and then switch to that rutine when you are further in the set.