I learned something profound!
Ok, well I'm back in my home state for the next 3 weeks and went out to providence to hit one of our old fav bars. My game was off but i played the best I could anyway. all in all, I couldn't really get much attention from woman but my friend chris (kind of a natural, but to insecure to close 50% of his sets) is doing fantastic. He doesn't know the game the same way I do, so i just use my wing tatciics to help him out, turns out I'm a very good wing... ok to the point
Chirs was off in the B-room and I was entertaining his target while he was gone. In mid sentence she stopped, looked at me and said "Actually, you're really good looking" as if she just noticed. She then proceeded to apologize and tell her she didn't mean to say it that way, but I said thank you to her. She didn't relaize just how much she taught me with that one sentence.
here I am a good looking guy, yet there is something in the way I project or hold myself that makes it so woman don't even notice. As far as many are concerned I'm just an average guy. just like there are a lot of "average looking" guys who woman percieve as being very cute. This one comment was my ultimate confirmation that looks DON'T MATTER, how you project yourself is all that really does.
So anyguys who can't get over the looks thing... you've seen ugly guys with hot girls, and use me as a good looking guy who doens't even get noticed. now the better news is I have a target area to fix for myself. I can't wait to see this girl again and thank her.
