Phone Game made Easy

[*shanghai]

This is essentially my phone game.

I do three things with girls whether I am in a relationship or just phone gam-ing them.

1) Multitask them.
Have you ever been talking to a girl and she is watching TV, playing with her dog or the worst, talking to her friends?

I do that.

Yesterday I was talking to a girl and she said "What's that sound?" I said "I am brushing my teeth." I will also put her on speaker phone and wash the dishes. If she says "I'll call you back later..." I say "No it's cool." and I stop.

Se what I am doing here? She is working to keep my attention and I reward her for it, subtly.

2) "Out of the blue" conversation. (I use it 80% of the time.)

Here is an example:

RING...Her: "Hello?"

Me "Do you know that if you put a little olive oil in a pan and heat up some diced garlic and then put it in the pasta sauce at the last minute, it dosen't get bitter? This sauce is going to be F-ing scrumptious!"

Her: "What are you doing!?!"

Me: "I ran out of olive oil, what should I use as a substitue?"

Her: Blah Blah

Me: "Why did you call me?"

Her: "You called me!!"

Me: "You're cute. Remember those pajamas you said you got for christmas...etc...

You can talk normal now, the conversation is yours to steer.

3) Cut her off at the pass

Example:

Her: "So my sister was yelling at her husband and I said to her, you need to keep your politics to yourself blah, blah, blah..."

Me: "HEY....HB9,....You know what I am going to buy you?.....A big cowbell. Everytime some one talks about politics you can start banging it with a drum stick."

Her: LOL

Me: "You know what sounds good?.....Let's go get a delicious cocktail tonight at 8pm at "that place", I know you miss me. I have to go back to work...etc..."

[Tinnou]

Cool post!

This is essentially my phone game.

1) Multitask them.
Have you ever been talking to a girl and she is watching TV, playing with her dog or the worst, talking to her friends?

I do that.

Yesterday I was talking to as girl and she said "Whats that sound?" I said "I am brushing my teeth." I will put her on speaker phone and wash the dishes. If she says "I'll call you back later..." I say "No it's cool." and I stop.

Se what I am doing here? She is working to keep my attention and I reward her for it, subtly.

Ahah, I used to eat apples while calling the girls! But I might try the TV/washing my dish!

[nedjimbo]

this shit is gold

between this and the breakdown of the day game you have to be one of the most helpful people i've read stuff on in this forum

[*shanghai]

this shit is gold

between this and the breakdown of the day game you have to be one of the most helpful people i've read stuff on in this forum

You're gonna make me cry :cry:

[=SkyNet=]

this also works for leaving messages.

"..i am just sitting on the couch and the beer is all the way in the kitchen i was hoping you would get it for me ... "

Dont forget you can make shit up completly on the fly

RING: hb :hello
me: (while sitting in my room) how long do you think i can eat the ice cream for , talk on the phone and drive this car.
hb: blah blah

also put them on hold. Say you are getting another phone call (makes you think you are popular)

[*shanghai]

Someone on my local PU forum gave me a bunch of shit about the juvinile, manipulative nature of this trio of ideas so "Just in case" this stuff dosen't make sense to some guys out there I will post my reply here too..........

My Reply:________________________________________________________


Amico Italiano, you have a point. This stuff sounds somewhat stupid out of context.

So in case there are other guys that will be confused, rather than enlightened from my humble experience, I will clarify a few points.

Of course my “phone game” pieces are childish and immature. That’s why it works.

Are some people going to try what I posted? I don’t know.
If they do and it doesn’t work, well, it’s never the line, it is the person delivering it.

For example:

Last night at club Dalva, I passed two cute women who looked at me as I passed. I stopped and slowly reached over and gently and playfully pulled her hair. They both busted up laughing.
On my way back from the bathroom they giggled (like little girls) when the saw me. I stopped and gently tugged on the other girls hair. They busted up again. I then pulled the ponytail of a girl sitting at another table. When she turned around I pointed to the girls.

As they were laughing they said, “You made our night!”

Was anyone hurt? No.

Does this sound like High School? YES!

Am I in High School? NO

Deep and wide rapport includes baby talk and conversations about the impact of Mark Rothko and Clyfford Still in the modern art world.

This is attraction stuff, not rapport stuff.

I am out “in the field” A LOT and I see a lot of guys who take this stuff too serious.
This is OK, because everyone is approaching the material within this community from a different and very personal perspective. My general out look on PU is a lighthearted approach.

I love smart intelligent, creative women. Sometimes these “types” think too much. It is my pleasure to help get them “out of their heads”. I have been with some beautiful women because when they are with me they have an unexpected good time. They have told me that I “Get it” and I “know how to actually talk” and am “fun to be with”.

Child level “material” works because it connects to the young and playful side of a woman. In rapport I can show show her the deep, responsible, accomplished and caring individual side.

Is some of this stuff manipulative? Perhaps. Are the girls setting-them selves up to be manipulated? Perhaps. What exactly am I manipulating? If leading a conversation is manipulating than, yes I am manipulating. I manipulated some girls to laugh and have a good time last night.

Do women enjoy a challenge? Hell yes. They throw up challenges all the time, consciously or unconsciously.

My rule of thumb regarding posting material and ideas is that it has really worked for me in the recent past. Field-tested, if you will.

What I could have done is titled the post “How I open up a phone conversation with out being Serious, Dry and Boring”

The whole conversation is not “Multi-Tasking”, “Out of the Blue” and “Cutting her off at the Pass”, these are just fun pieces to steer the conversation in a non-typical, spicy and unique direction

To each his own.

[BabyFace]

Shanghai, as always, thanks for this post and the follow up response for clarity.  What you say in your follow up is huge in my opinion.  It's always the dry, buttoned down, boring women that respond the best to this stuff.  Because you're getting them out of your shell!  And I don't care who you are, I firmly believe deep down inside everyone wants to experience new, exciting, interesting things.  Nobody wants the same boring typical crap day after day after day.  This is why god invented weekends.

Anyways, I guess my point of this (that goes along with your comment about PU being personal), is that my goal is to give people a new, exciting experience and learn about good healthy social dynamics.  If I manipulate a woman to give her the emotional response that she desires, is that wrong?  Most certainly not.  Women do this to men all the time and we eat it up.  When a woman dresses all sexy and does attractive stuff to get you interested in her, is she doing it for her or for you?  Probably partly for her, but a lot of it is because she knows it will elicite a positive response in you that she desires to give you.  Does she want this?  Yes.  Do we enjoy this?  Yes.

Only sadistic people respond positively to things they do not want/enjoy.  At least this is what I believe.  So if I woman responds positively to this type of behavior in phone game, it is what she wants and you are simply the provider.  Perhaps this is a clinical and cold attitude, but that's how I feel about it.

[Hypertom]

The day before yesterday I really had a good game and got a number!!
But when I called her I messed it all up, coudn't have been worser!!!!!!
 
i was toal nervous and fixed to the question: will she go out with me???

This was so bad

 :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

[*shanghai]

The day before yesterday I really had a good game and got a number!!
But when I called her I messed it all up, coudn't have been worser!!!!!!

On the FIRST phone call, reference somthing fun you did with her, so you don't have to sat "Hey. its me joe shmoe from the Z bar, remember?"
Her: "no.."

Example:

You met jill and were out wearing a purple hat and she liked it.

RING...her: "Hello?"

"I met this cute girl at the Z bar and she told me that she liked my purple hat, should I call her? She gave me her #...I think her name was Jill"

If seh laughs you are in, if not game her all over again.

If you really ran solid game you don't have to tease her as much.

Don't joke so much that you come off as wierd. The idea of teasing on the phone is just to show her that you are not afraid of her and fell you have to treat her like a precious princess

[Hypertom]

Actually after I called her and messed it up completly I thought about it.
The idear to refer to something nice at the last evening came in my mind too!!

Your stuff with the hat is great, actually she DID like my winky blinky necklace and made fun of it that night!!!!!

Couldn't you have told me that before?! :? :wink:

Aaaaaaaaaarrrrrgh I'm such a jerk!

[*shanghai]

Couldn't you have told me that before?! :? :wink:!

You can read posts until your eyes bleed, but you will only be able to do anything real after you have learned from your own experiences.

Aaaaaaaaaarrrrrgh I'm such a jerk!

Don't be hard on yourself man!

[Gibson]

You can read posts until your eyes bleed, but you will only be able to do anything real after you have learned from your own experiences.

So true, I've been going by a lot of these guidelines for the last week, and my phone game has improved drastically, experience is key.

[ER!C L!VE]

Muther fucker.  I had a girl last night start playing with her dog in the middle of the conversation and it pissed me off.  I'm 32 and she's 18.  I took it as her checking out of the conversation.

What have you done when the girl does this to you?

Thanks!

Eric

[*shanghai]

I had a girl last night start playing with her dog in the middle of the conversation and it pissed me off.  I'm 32 and she's 18.  I took it as her checking out of the conversation.

1) Multitask them.
Have you ever been talking to a girl and she is watching TV, playing with her dog or the worst, talking to her friends?
I do that.

 
LOL!, see? playing with her dog!

I do 2 things.

1) I don't try to get theit attention by yelling or talking. I shut up and wait until they are asking "Are you still there?"
I say "Huh, are you mulitasking me? That reminds me, I've got to run, call me in a little while when your not so distracted..."
Her: "No, it's OK, blah blah"
Me: "No really, call me later, your fun to talk too usually, but were both too busy right now...pick a time when you just want to talk to me and the dog is out...I do the same thing and it pisses girls off, I multi task them, it's a bad habit I've got to stop because it is SOOO disrespectful... call me later..." etc... CLICK

* If she promises not to ever mutitask you again, then you don't have to hang up, but then she will get mad in the future if you multitask her.

2) (My favorite) As soon as they check out of the conversation, I check out but WORSE. I put them on speaker phone and start tuning my guitar, washing dishes or running a bath. When they come back on the line I am doing something and probably noisily. It's funny because she wil say "Hey, what are you doing?" and hear all this noise. I yell across the room, "I am multitasking you!"

She will either get it or get upset. Either way, if the girl is ADD, you've got to show her that you are not a chump that will just sit around while she plays with you.

Don't get mad though.

I call them on their s%#t , but in a fun way, not directly. If you sound upset or angry it won't work. You have to be laid back.

[ER!C L!VE]

Dude, you realize you're posting some gold shit.  I haven't seen anyone talk about something that is so common and disrespectful, yet many guys deal with it daily.  Fantastic!  Thanks!

Eric