Hey all my pickuping pals, as some of you know I have a girlfriend
and am enjoying it greatly so I haven't been out in the field as
much.
I still hang with the guys on occasion, but don't follow through
with my various flirtatious interactions with the opposite sex
because I am exploring the beauty of maintaining a great
relationship.
I want to share my thoughts and observations on several things that
are paramount in having a sexy, fun life with girls in it.
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* Have a LIFE.
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Have intersting, exiting activities that have nothing to do with
picking up girls. I am sure tha you can be very succesfull getting
girls into bed with out hobbies, but I highly recomend this for your
own peace of mind and it is VERY attractive.
I have done kickboxing, on and off, play gigs around town playing
music, I take various seminars and classes. I am busy with out girls
or game.
Ask your self the question, "If I wasn't working or running game,
what do I have in my life that makes me exited to be me."
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* Get Laid
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Your probably saying, "That's what were here for smart-ass!"
What I mean is, if you are having the proverbial dry-spell, stop
being so goddarn picky. Get the ball rolling by sleeping with a less
than "10"!
When you have gotten laid, girls can smell it, (no pun intended).
It is called momentum. You will feel like a man again and it dosn't
matter how hot she is. Remember: No one has to know.
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* Hang out with cool guys that are not a part of the community
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Do you have a friend that is great with girls?
Or even better, do you have a friend that when the two of you hang
out you have a fucking blast, even if there is not a girl in sight?
Great!
When you go out forget about the girls and have as much fun
as passible.
Girls will be drawn to you.
Besides, we all know that when you go out with PUAs, thing can get
silly with all the bragging and analysis.
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* Don't try to re-invent the wheel
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Some of you guys are very smart. This is a source of pride. You want
to be the best. We all do. So, a lot of guys think something like "I
am going to be a master PUA and I am going to start by creating a
whole new way of doing this..."
Chill.
Learn the basics, and always remember that it is the fundamentals
that yield results.
What are the basics? If you can't answer this and you have been
going out like crazy, stop, ask, and get back to the fundamentals.
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* Don't be afraid of relationships
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Do you want to get good at sex? You need to practice. The only way to
practice is to have a lot of it. The answer is have a 1-3-6 month
relationship.
Why all the hubbub about same night pulls?
Chill.
Relax.
Game the girl slowly. Take a week or a month and then sex her
3 nights a week for 3 months. It will force you to keep a rock
solid frame too. You have to "ON" for more than just a few hours in
a club.
