Many people have been asking me about my method. What i use and how its done. So here it is my basic plan from aproach to lay. This is basicly a rewrite of the MM model
General outline of my model is a simplified MM model:
Find-> atract -> comfort->intimacy comfort -> lay
Find:
Both day game and night game have their own pluses and minuse. At day girls are more open to you but they are busy with things so they are not always ready to be stoped by you. At night they are more closed cause everyone hits on the but they are out to meet people. So what i do is evening game. Its the best thing from both worlds.
You go into a club or a bar around 9-9:30pm when there is almost no people in it. However the girls that are there are out with their friends hanging out and are not ADD. They will easily open cause they are out to meet new people and will not have a shield cause no one aproached them yet. Plus there is no loud music everywhere. What you are looking for is a club/bar where people are just chilling and hanging out and you dont have to yell at them for you to hear them
Aproach/Atract.
Here are just some of the ways i aproach. 1) i do an eye contact with a target so she knows i am there. Then i wait like 5 minutes to build up a tension , i might go somewhere else or i might stay at that place. Then i make eye contact again and aproach her. That way it looks like i am genuinly interested and i conquered my fear and aproached her
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Or as they pass by i say a quick comment to them and keep going so next time if i see them we already talked. There are many other ways i aproach but thats another post in itself.
I ussualy open with something situational or on the spot. If i cant think of anything i use an opinion opener. Guys remember the reason why you want to use an opinion opener is so that she can give you some responce you can work with. If you ask for her name or "if she comes here often" she can only say yes/no, its hard to work with this answer. But you can ask them anything as long as their answer will be longer then 3 wordsba
As soon as i hear her responce, whatever it is i start busting on her and playfully teasing her. Do, banter and C/F. IF there are people in the group i make sure i adress all of them. To an outsider it looks like i am gaming everyone. After about a MINUTE or TWO maximum 10 i switch to comfort. My rule of thumb is, if they are laughing at your joke or generaly like you that means you are done with atraction. You cant have banter and C/F for to long otherwise you are just an entertainig guy saying hi or a player. Also dont forget playful kino in this stage.
Comfort:
THis is where most of the game is played. This used to be the hardest part for me .. Anyway, as i am bantering i start to slow it down and direct more attension to my target. You can ussualy tell when i switch to comfort cause i ussualy say "so how do you guys know each other" or "so let me guess, you go to UofA ?". This is the part when you ask all the AFC questions. What separetes you from an AFC though is you know how to vibe and answer them properly. I find out what she likes and if i like that too i dont say "omg, no way, i thought i was the only one who likes britney spears". That sounds to much like a line, instead i tell her a story where she finds out in the end that i like britney spears too. Basicly i use mysteries grounding the identity technique for everything. If you find stuff that you disagree with tell her about it in a CF way. Also start probing for a day2. People ussualy like to do the same things like : going swiming, getting coffee, hicking, concerts, role play. Role play is when you talk about something awesome that you guys never done and you decide to do it together next time you meet (like sun bathing on a roof, playing mini golf etc).
I also try to bridge them to different locations as much as possible. I tell them we should walk around the club, or go outside to get some fresh air. Walk around on the streets etc. Tell her you are going to bring her back to her friends and it will only take 5 minutes.
Escolate kino when you are walking with her. If you put an arm around her and she doesnt respond say "there is something wrong with this, yes" then you take her arm and put it around yourself. Bam, now you guys look like a couple
. As you are walking continue to probe her for interests. Ask her what she does in spare time, what music she likes. Tell her stories that relate to that subject. Keep looking into her eyes from time to time, as you are talking as in you are destructed by her. This will build tension like no other. Sexual tension is your friend do not kill it by making out with her. This is also the spot where sincere SOIs are good. Tell her that you are really glad that you met her and that at first you thought she didnt have personality etc.
You always eject first. So when you get back to the venue or when you get tired of her say you have to go. Make up some bullshit if you have to but this will make it seem like you are busy, plus the sexual tension didnt get discharged so some matters are unresolved till next time
. Make sure she is still down for the day2 you set up early. Tell her to give you a call in 47 minutes (dont tell why). And eject. The phone call is there for me so i can see how good i did, if she calls thats a big IOI. Now you can open another set
just make sure she doesnt sees you.
Intimacy Comfort
As soon as i meet her for day2 i start with a little banter (2 minutes max) then switch to comfort, and then when we are ussualy alone or holding each other i start intimate comfort. IF you want to get a lay this is the key step. It makes them comfortible with you sexualy. How i do this i ask them to play have you ever game. But i slowly make things sexual (also you can just ask questions instead of the "have you ever"). Ask her the craziest place she had sex in, if she ever had a ONS, how many times a day she masterbates, whats her favorite position, how many bf she had .. etc. The bf/gf thing is a big one. They want to know that you are not a player and that you could be a bf material. This is the part where the first kiss ussualy happen, cause by this time the tension is really big, and a heavy make out ensues.
Lay
As soon as the foreplay starts start your own LMR. Tell her how you shouldnt be doing this how you just met and that this is to soon. If she says anything other then the agreement you are good to go. IF she agrees continue the make out but do take aways. So it looks like you cant cotrol yourself but in the last second you snap back
. Ussualy you can tell if she is ready for the lay by doing role reversal. Imagine yourself at her place and ask yourself as if you where her "do i have enough comfort to sleep with this person". If the answer is no .. then its not going to happen tonight.
Some after the lay tips:
-make her call you. Every call you make is an IOI. You can sort of negate that by saying "hey , whats up you wanted me to call ?"
-if you ask her to call you, thats an IOI, so when she does call you its not an IOI from her anymore
-don't afraid to tell her how you feel about her. Text msg her cute stuff (check out the txt msg post in this section) this will make her think about you when you are not there.
-dont offer things to do. Dont be the guy who calls her up and says "hey, you want to go do this .." its ok to do this once in a while but i did that a lot and it screws you up. Instead when she calls you, say "i am doing x and y, you can join me if you want"
-Every time you are with her be the first person that has to go somewhere. ALWAYS do this. Makes you look busy.
-dont be the one who always initiates sex. Make her start this shit. You do this by pushing her away sometimes during havy make out.
-make her hang out with your friends that way she is in your reality not hers
-become cold sometimes to create an emotional roller coaster (push pull).
The end
-THE SkYNet
