I strive to try things in field and filter out what actaully works to attract women through experience
* I've tried acting like an asshole and it works with some girls.
** I've tried being super bossy and that has worked with some groups.
*** I've done martial arts and was in perfect shape, but I have had 10x the success in the past 2 years than back then. (I only recently bought a weight set and started eating and drinking more healthily because with game, grooming seems way more important than body shape.)
But what works for me, hands down is:
Overwhelming positive energy!
I have found that you can roll up to a group and "take over", so to speak, with such a great vibe that any guy who attempts to "AMOG" you with put-downs will be left looking like a dick.
Sure girls respond to physical strength and power, but they are also scared of it. Overwhelming positive energy is not to be confused with being a happy clown, it is simply a man in his own reality where everything seems to go his way. He is having fun on his own terms. This is attractive.
I find a woman would rather have fun than hang around an asshole all night.
Of course assholes get laid, but there are more than a few different ways to be alpha
1) You may not be the toughest strongest guy in the room, but you can be the coolest. (ex: the popular DJ, or the newblood-out-of-towner with a fresh look)
2) You can be so in your own reality that girls start to wonder. "Who is that guy? He looks intriguing"
3) Having so much fun with your friends that you become attractive because you may be the only group or guy that isn't scoping the room hungrily for chicks. You can be the guy that dosen't NEED girls to have fun.
4) You are the leader of an event. Because you took the initiative to set it up, it shows that you are a man of action who surrounds yourself with cool, interesting people. This could be a party in your house or you simply invited a group out to the club, but you are the leader.
5) When talking to a girl, talk your friends up. Talk about how all the women in your life are all amazing. Most insecure people are always looking for an angle to raise thier own status or value at the expense of others, sometimes even thier friends. It's far better to project comfort and confidence in your chosen group than complain about peers to make yourself look good.
When a women realizes that you are truly confident and don't feel the need to do this she will feel compelled to be a part of your great life.
My friend Alchemist once said a girl said to him "I wish I had your life"
Amen
