1:)alright so as soon as you get to lecture, try and find a girl who sparks your interest, who also has an available seat next to her. if the seat is impossiable to reach without somone thinking, why is he working so hard to sit there.... dont go for it.
2:)next read her body language (BL), smile at her when you take your seat, and then pay attention to the way she positions her body towards you (or away from you) during class. reading her body language is the best way to determine what your going to say first to her.
for example: if she looks bored in class, open your spiral notebook and write next to your notes, "you look just bored as i am, lets kill time together with some conversation."
3:)tap her on the shouldre, whisper in her ear, get her attention in a domineering, non-subservient way, and then hand her the notebook with a pen in it. i've used this like 10 times now, and i have yet to get a girl who did not want to talk to me.
whats great, is the response is always, "what should we talk about?" and when you ask her a thought provoking question that she's not used to(i.e. NOT whats your major, where you from? etc.), a question like..."if you could have any superhero power what would it be and why" your a diamond in the ruff because your original and creative. Your not asking the same thing every other swinging dick in the univeristy has started out with.
if you've got issues with cold approaches, this is a great way to warm yourself up. it became clear to me this week that i've been a gigantic vagina when it comes to approaching. when i started i would use the openers like a shield to hide my true intentions. i was almost ashamed to convey my interest in the girl. but that all changed this week, now when i open, even if its handing a girl my notebook with an opener on it, i'm gaming them and i'm not afraid of being called out on it. if you come in like a little bitch asking for their insight on an issue....your never going to get an ounce of respect, but if you accept your role and the breif instance of vulnerablity attached to it, you come across like a man, a man woman want in their life because he knows what he wants and isn't afraid of it
I have to thank skynet, because he inadvertenly made me realize this opening problem about myself while i watched him with a 5 set of freshman girls at the union.... i went way too far off on a tagent.
anways, i've been golden this week with approaches, i've number closed 5 girls that i'm legitimatly interested in, and i have a day 2 on sunday. i chalk it up to the training wheels of note passing. try it yourself if you've got bad AA, but the superhero opener is mine.
-freedomfighta
