New To The Game? - Inner Game First!

[suede]

www.modernalphaman.com

Welcome Players!

While on this journey i have come to find that getting your inner game together (improving yourself as a man) will work much more in your favor to help with your success with woman in the long run. All the canned openers, pickup lines and routines i learned are great and i still use some of them. They can also hurt you more then you know if you don’t understand how to have natural game. This is why i say, practice and study these books and products on the right on natural game. Which is really just being your best self. You might need to still develop yourself into a better man that the woman of your dreams will find attractive. Thats OK. Once you start getting these things handled you will see. People will just give you things. Woman, friends, jobs, and opportunities will fall into your lap. This is really the law of attraction at work here. Once you get your inner game handled you will get everything you want in life without trying to pretend, and fake it.

You see while all these pickup lines, different methods, strategies & routines, NLP and magic might work great for the time being. I have found that eventually you will get burnt once the woman you used this on finds out who you really are. You can only pretend, and say scripted openers, stories and routines so long. Trust me gentlemen on this…. I have lost some very beautiful high quality woman b/c of this. Don’t do it!!!
Learn the natural inner game methods first.

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[Positive]

I don't agree with this entirely.

The underlying idea is great - fix your inner game and your outer game will flow naturally from a place of strength and security. Sounds great!

I've lead outer game workshops, I've helped out in inner game workshops. And one HUGE pitfall for studentsd of inner game is to absolutely reject outer game. I've heard this too often "Fuck outer game! I'm just going to work on my inner game" and it really pains me because outer and inner game are not mutually exclusive.

The ideal inner game manifests itself in great outer game. Similarly, great outer game will lead to great inner game as you gradually become what you believe you are. It's all a cycle. A tree has both roots (inner game) and leaves (outer game). A tree without either of them is a tree that is dead, whether it knows it yet or not.

The other thing I have against this post is that it doesn't seem to undertand the distinction between "natural game" (ie non scripted game) and "inner game". Granted, a lot of the distinction is academic, but at the end there is a huge difference between someone who loves himself and is comfortable and confident with who he is (ie inner game) and someone who is comfortable ad-libbing without conforming to an artificial structure (ie natural game). Bear in mind that one does not necessarily make the other.

But in general, I agree with the spirit of the post. Fix your inner game. Stop relying on canned routines and openers.

[undark]

The ideal inner game manifests itself in great outer game. Similarly, great outer game will lead to great inner game as you gradually become what you believe you are. It's all a cycle. A tree has both roots (inner game) and leaves (outer game). A tree without either of them is a tree that is dead, whether it knows it yet or not.

I really like the metaphor you used here!

[poelectrix]

I think inner game advice should be given bye better known experts in the community (STYLE, MYSTERY, DAVID D, TYLER D, JDOG, SKYNETT, HOOBIE, JEFFY, STEVE P, HYPNOTICA, CHUCK NORRIS, ETC).

Modernalphamanwhever doesn't really have enough social value here yet to give advice, all he really does is post small bullitens and then puts a link to his site...

[Karate84]

I'm afraid to click on some random link.  What's on his website?