Date Posted: 2003/05/26 07:54:00 AM EDT
Author: TylerDurden <unknown email address>
Subject: Push/Pull tactics for rapport & attraction
Intentionally disqualifying yourself to whatever a girl's profile is works
really well as a neg.
Out of the blue, I just start disqualifying myself.
This is PUSH PULL. Mystery uses the ANALOGY of CAT THEORY to describe it,
which is just a cool way of describing push/pull.
CAT Theory: Flash a laser-pointer up on the wall. The cat looks at it. Run
the light closer to the cat. The cat sort of looks at it. Put it right in
front of the cat, and then PULL IT AWAY. The cat sort of moves a bit, but
still sits there. Again, but it RIGHT UP to its face, and then PULL IT AWAY.
The cat almost pounces. Finally, dangle the light right in front of its face
one last time, and QUICKLY PULL IT AWAY.
The cat chases it and chases it and chases it FRANTICALLY ALL AROUND THE ROOM.
VERBAL PUSH/PULL THEORY:
Disqualifier negs do this.
-RICH NEG: Are you rich? No. Then we're broken up.
-DIVORCE NEG (for rich girls): I'm going to marry you, and divorce you, and
take half your money..
-GAY COCKBLOCK NEG: Hey, are you guys hitting on my boyfriend? Keep away from
him, he's all mine. He's always like this in public! (Gay Cockblock routine)
-MODEL NEG (for models, abruptly out of the blue say): You know, I'm so over
dating models. I'm so sick of being the "daddy" for them and having to play up
that whole profile.
-TOO SIMILAR NEG: I don't think we'd get along.. Why? We're too similar..
Why? I haven't known you long enough, I can't tell you.
Use these in CONTRAST with C&F stuff like:
-I think you'd make a nice new girlfriend (Zan's line from ZAN ROCKS that you
can find in Cliff's List archive, that is a FINE post)
-I love you.. Will you marry me?
-Kooper's Shakesperean C&F Frame (I will love thee for all eternity and
beyond.. etc etc)
The key is to go BACK AND FORTH between the two.
Alternate randomely (when your field-learned INTUITION tells you its time to
push more buttons actually).
PHYSICAL PUSH/PULL THEORY:
Use triangular gazing, heavy eye contact, or kino, and ALTERNATE it with
looking away from her, back turns, looking at other girls, etc etc..
Go BACK AND FORTH between the two, to confuse her and set the PATTERN.
Also encorporate PUNISHMENT/REWARD as time goes on. So do this RANDOMELY to
some small extent at first, but then use push/pull in SPECIFIC contexts.
She compliments you, you REWARD her with positive bodylanguage. Use NEGATIVE
or DISINTERESTED bodylanguage if she annoys you or shit-tests you, especially
while in RAPPORT (in attraction, this is fine, but if she shit tests in RAPPORT
then you must use PUNISHMENT rather than C&F like you would in attract-phase,
because this is going BACKWARDS and will NOT work).
So look at 2 possible responses to the SAME statement. One for rapport, one
for attraction.
"I HAVE A BOYFRIEND"
ATTRACT PHASE: "mmmm.. THAT, will give you something to do when I'M not
around.."
RAPPORT PHASE: (disinterested bodylanguage, look around at other girls until
she blurts "but I'm not sure about the relationship" or some stupid shit like
that..)
"YOU'RE A PLAYER.. YOU GET ALOT OF GIRLS"
ATTRACT PHASE: "yeah for sure.. but what turns you on so much about players?
RAPPORT PHASE: "really? wow.. you know, you look like a real heart breaker
yourself" BUT, if this doesn't work, THEN do disinterested bodylanguage.
***CONCLUSION:
Use PUSH/PULL in the CAT THEORY context to gain attraction, and then PROCEED to
use PUSH/PULL in the PUNISHMENT/REWARD context, until her brain RECOGNIZES the
pattern and begins to become brainwashed to be positive towards you. (It
should take only a few minutes to have her fully brainwashed..)
I joke with the term "brainwashed", because when used effectively it can
actually seem like the girl is so keyed into pleasing you that it seems alot
like a Pavlovian response.
-TD
