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[Dickweed]

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[Uncle Jesse]

We all set our goals for sets, with the caveat that if the set went more than 10 minutes, you had to escalate or ask for a number or it would not count.

Great night out with Friley and Cramias. I set my goal for 20 sets this week and did 5 at the Keys. I, like Cramias, was also rather intoxicated. From what I remember of the sets I was in:

1) Bridal Party: Cramias and I were basically negging them and fucking with them quite a bit. They had a scavenger hunt type list and told us what they needed to complete it. Cramias ended up giving them a condom (definite IVD, lol). They needed a guy to serenade them. I boasted of Cramias's singing skills, which I had witnessed at Applebees a few hours earlier when he romantically serenaded Friley and I with "Shining Star" and a stirring Bette Midler number. We were getting asked questions about ourselves, but eventually we ejected, mostly due to boredom and ADD.

2) A Mexican and Black girl. Cramias and Friley opened them, I entered the set later. The girls annoyed them and they ejected. I stayed and chatted with them for a while. They made fun of me for being white, but I negged both them back for other reasons. The black girl claimed to be a college math teacher and I asked her the square root of 16. She didn't know so I negged the shit out of her. The Mexican girl was laughing, and later tried rubbing up on me on the dancefloor.

3) I opened a set on my own with the "what's my color" opener I came up with after our trip to the mall that afternoon. The opener went well, the set unlocked, but I ejected when I saw HBStripper had shown up. Her fakies magnetically drew me away from the set, but I wished I had stayed in.

4) Another set with Cramias. I dont' remember it for the life of me, but I know it happened.

5) Parking Lot Pimping: I asked two HBs that were walking by if they could give us a ride home and they said they were not leaving, but just going to the car to get something. I said "Why don't we just make out then?" She responded "how about I suck your dick while I'm at it". I said "Absolutely". Then we all got killer BJs. Kidding, but it was funny as hell.

15 more to go.

I see Cramias' point that with quantity in mind, you tend not to stay in set. He has no approach anxiety so this week he will easily meet his goal. I also ejected too early a few times, but the exercise has already been good for me. I've been approaching very inconsistently lately and this structure has been at least some incentive to keep it real.

Pimpalicious

[Uncle Jesse]

Yeah, that girl was ridiculous. She was doing similar things with me. On the dancefloor, she happened to be right near me and would say something or smile at me. I'd turn away after answering a question and start focusing on another girl. Next thing I knew, she was giving me hip checks and kinoing me. I kept pushing her away, it was too funny. In hindsight, I thought she was pretty cute, not sure why I didn't escalate, just didn't feel the vibe I guess.

Pimpalicious

[Wayout]

Wow..you guys are having major fun over there...I am jelaous! :wink:..I am doing my own version of setting a goal and keeping a log. It's here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59130
  I really miss having a wingman tho.
 Nice read  

[Uncle Jesse]

Martin: It actually sounds like things are going relatively well. With Approach #2, I think you are looking at it all wrong by thinking having the other girl you approached join you at the cafeteria to be a bad thing. That is great social proof, hanging with one HB and another that knows you joins for lunch!! The girl called you again too, so keep focused on her.

#4: Keep at it, although it makes little sense that she did not want to kiss after cuddling and watching the movie, since when did girls make sense? Also, there could have been other reasons for this (more details!). Regardless, she called again and wants to hang out. Can't close em all on the first day (like you were in Tucson before you left you pervert), so don't brush her off yet.

What's with all these Asian girls? I thought you didn't like them?!

Pimpalicious

[Uncle Jesse]

Alright, it's Tuesday and only Wayout, Cramias and I have reported on our progress. I know there were more guys at the meeting

Quick update:

Sunday: 0 Approaches (hung over and watched football)
Monday: 0 Approaches (work, then read a book all night, although I did pretend to approach Alyssa Milano on TV...she totally wanted it)

Pimpalicious

[Uncle Jesse]

Four set tonight, bringing me to 9 total.

Set 6: Approached alone. Asked if I could put my empty drink on their table, they smile and say Yes, as I am leaving, drop a FTC and do the What's my Color opener. Set unlocks, but I eject early calling it a warmup set.

Set 7: With Friley. We both showed up wtih AFC friends but found time to open a 3-set. He opened with David Bowie. Two were cute, one was a fattie. He isolated one of the cute ones and I ran some game on the fattie. The other cute one had a pink hat on so I brought her into the frame and did the What's My Color opener. They were laughing and thought maybe th dude thought I was gay. I ran my IBT's routine and after a few more minutes, they ejected.

Set 8: Two girls waiting to request a song. I approach alone and ask them to request "Wake me up before you go go" by WHAM! The one girl says she loves that song and actually requests it, lol. The DJ says "Um, probably not" but she makes me promise I will dance with her when it comes on. I agree, which is like agreeing to drop my pants if Barry Manilow comes in and starts rapping. We talk about music for a while, and they say they love "Indian Outlaw" by Tim McGraw. I HATE this songand tell them they have no taste They begin trying to qualify themselves after that, but the fucking song comes on and they go dance!

Set 9: I approach a big booy hoe on the dancefloor. I'm grinding my rod n her during Lil Jon. Salsa comes on and as I try to leave, she grabs me and insists on teaching me. I'm actually better than I thought I'd be. She's not that hot, so I decide to toss some routines at her. I do the Bad Ass Kid routine which goes over well. Stack it with David Bowie. She initially does not know who he is, but after some explanation, remembers and says he's gross. Things are going well, but then "Cotton Eye Joe" comes on She wants to dance,but I can't dance to that song and look at myself in the mirror so I leave.

My AFC friends want to leave early, as always, and I can't find FRiley, so I end up leaving. Good night.

I'm definitely falling into the quantity trap of the goal, but this is good for me. An SP is not approaching consistently and this is the second night in a row I've had basically zero anxiety about it. Who's going out Thurs night?

Pimpalicious

[Uncle Jesse]

Dancefloor approaches are not that easy or everyone would do them. There are quite a few guys that have no clue what to do on the dancefloor and others that have never pulled there.

It's a different skillset than off the dancefloor, and I would agree generally a less complicated and involved one. However, there are elements that for some guys make it more difficult than a cold street approach. Everything is relative. Some guys think night game is harder, some think day game is.

I think you may look down upon it because it is not one of your stronger areas. I used to rationalize stacking routines I didn't make up for various reasons, but you called me on it, and I've been incorporating doing such more into my game.

Pimpalicious

[corolla4afe91]

sorry for not posting sooner, I have been out of the house and busy at the office and school. So far I have done around 10, I say around because two didn't really count.

Saturday:
    I was at my favorite venue and I was lucky there were two women looking around(both HB7.5-8).  I didn't run a candid opener, I walked up like I worked there and said "Can I help you find anything?" it kind of went from there. apparently they were looking for a toy, I told them what I thought worked best for me LOL. They asked if I was gay, then I said "no! what makes you think that?" then they restated what I said about the toy.  I replied "look they make me say that about every thing"  It ran over the 10min but I didn't try to #close.
    I also ran some at the mall.  I was walking around the food court looking for sets to open, and I found this 3set all were HB8's.  I kind of poped in with out having any thing to say. Nothing really came to mind except, "I was going to see a movie just now, but get this I thought a new Jim carry movie was out, and I was looking forward to seeing a funny movie...do know of any funny movies?"  Then I started talking about the "older" funny movies and how they were better than the new stuff out there.  it was funny none of them liked Adam sandler.  it really didnt last that long because I was having a very hard time staying the center with out two of them strying off and talking.

Sunday:
     LAME ASS

Monday:
   I had some fun in my math class,  Im not sure but it was really close to an approach. I was doing nothing as usaul and one girl asked if the teacher had a gf (we had a sub that day) I turned to her friend and said "wow she is really into the teacher" her friend said "yeah" I said "I know who is goign to get an A" her friend started laughing and said "thats mean".  I started some C&F by saying  "your just mad because she made the move before you".  it continued like that for most of the hour.
   I ran my HW help approach acouple of times on campus. over all it worked okay.  I did have one girl call me on it. she said "is this how you meet women?" I just replied "no I meet them on the internet" I almost broker her bitch sheild but she was a hard ass (only half a smile).

Tuseday:
   I ran my cross word a few times. I really didnt get too far with it because I didnt open enough threads so it died kind of quick. In all I had about an hour and I ran cross word 5 times.

Wednesday:
   My state was crap

Thursday:
   My state is still crap

[Uncle Jesse]

Corolla: So how many approaches is that for the week so far?

I LOVE the response to "Is this how you meet women"? lol. very cool.

Pimpalicious

[cougar]

I was a lame ass up until last night. My state was awesome last night. I felt like I was the shit just walking around in the bar. I didn't really keep track of approaches, but I'm guessing I did around 10. I did a few opinion openers, but most of them I was just walking past a HB and would say whatever was in my head. Didn't stay in set for very long on any of them though.  Are we counting when HBs approach you? I got approached probably 4-5 times.

[Uncle Jesse]

Four more sets last night, could have been five but I violated the 10 minute rule by not asking for her number after being in set with her for like 20 minutes.

13 down, 7 to go.

Pimpalicious

DNN: Thanks for the offer to drive me home. The stoners eventually showed up, albeit 45 minutes late.

[cougar]

Project Mayhem openers? What's that?

[cougar]

One particular set I remember, a girl said something smartass as she walked by me, so I reached behind me as she passed, grabbed her jacket and dragged her back in front of me so I could start running game.

This reminds me of a number close I got last week. I got myself in with a 6 set (HB7, HB7.5, UG, 3 guys). I hadn't run any game on HB7.5 but when I was walking out to leave I saw her talking to UG. I just looped my finger into her belt loop and pulled her over to me, completely interrupting her convo. Went for the number and got it.

[corolla4afe91]

So far 5 more today.  I was using "Moonies".  the reactions were so-so its  cool how it gets them to interact with you though.  I got the idea in my 8am class I asked the girl next to me what a moonie was...  She said she had no idea, then started to look it up.  then the girl next to her got involved in the conv as well.  At that point I decided it would be a good opener.
   Here is how one of my approaches went.  
me:"Hey can I ask you a question?"
hb"ok"  
me"Do you have any idea what a moonie is?"
hb"I have no idea what a moonie is"
me"okay cool..."
hb"why? what is it?"
me"I dont know thats why I was asking"
me"it was a question on my soc test"
hb"you should have studied"
me"I did and it isnt in the book"
hb"omg I had that happen to me in ----"
me"maybe you should study harder"
hb:shot me a look
me"hey I have to goto class"
hb "bye"
me "ok, see ya"

   I guess it works well on campus because most everyone has had something like that happen to them on a test.

So far about 15...maybe I should change my goal, lol naw I know I can pick up the remaining 25 this weekend.  I didn't count the two in class either because I talk to them periodically.

-R