Approach# 8
I was getting food at the eatery and I started talking to this girl who is serving food there. She was smiling and giving me that “look”…all the positive signs.The next day I went there and even tho I wasn’t getting any food..I just asked her if she wanted to hang out after work. I asked for her number…she said she doesn’t have a phone..wtf?..I asked her: how would I get in touch with you then?…She said just come here…( wtf?)..
Me: Ok..let’s do something tomorrow after work…do you want me just show up here at 9?
Her: if you want to.
Me: ok see you tomorrow.
I got no clue about this one….she seem to give me IOIs like crazy…
Update: saw her next day around 6 and asked her if we are still up for hanging out,she said she can’t cause of some shit…I don’t think she was lying…but I don’t want to hit on her anymore for a while…gotta cut off all that attention from her.
Update on Approach# 5…
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60022 she doesn’t want me…lol..I was like a puppy begging her to dedicate some of her precious time to me. The sad part….she is HB6!
Approach#9
Went by myself to see football game…thinking I’ll find some loner to hang out with. I see some girls just standing there by herself..HB6…lol…I come up and make a comment how my friends didn’t show up and I don’t want to see the game by myself. She said her friends might be coming( bs)…didn’t sound like she wanted to hang out with me…I ejected.
Approach# 10
At a college party I approach this HB7…I pay attention to by BL..staying hip to hip ..keeping a good EC…smile…all text book BL…I open her with: “so what’s your story?”
She: my story?
Me: yeah..everyone has one…( this is done so she could start qualifying herself to me)
She:..welll I am from Netherlands..here for one semester…bla..bla bla.
Me: oh yeah…I lived there…do you know XXX place…?…(established lots of common ground and huge rapport right away…)
At this point I don’t know what to do….number# or since this is a party try some kino?..I need to run a test.
I suddenly turn around a pay attention to someone else…but still staying next to her( trying to gage her IL…see what she will do) She starts talking to someone else…and is gone. I guess her IL wasn’t that high…oh well.
Approach#11
I went to this salsa dance/lesson. And this HB7..she was dancing very close to me,kept very good EC…smiling…gaze into my eyes for like 2-3 seconds. So I went ahead and did a hit:
Me: your are a pretty good dancer,we should go dance together on Friday to XXX club
Her: I dunno what I am doing…and I would have to ask my friends too.
Me: I want us to go..just you and me!
Her: hm..that would be a date….and I don’t see you that way.
Me: Well thanks for telling me that…I got a lot of respect for you…most girls are not this straight forward….bla..bla..bla.
To reflect on this week:..I had low energy and my self esteem was at the low level too.All ny targets were below HB8…I guess I felt I had better chances with ugly girls. I even hit up asian girls( I feel so unatracted to them..it's like talking to guys to me) I went to some college parties and talked to some girls but it wasn’t an approach just mingling.. I did only two true approaches this week…that’s a low number,I am getting discouraged again about my abilities….shit! nothing out of 10 approaches!
I am going to be in PHX this friday...perhaps anyone wanna meet up with me and do some sarging or day game?
Stats:
Approaches 11
Dates 3
Sex 0
