FR March12/2010

[bigbear86]

   I'm going to start with last Saturday for this field report,  I started out at San Philippe's in Tempe. When I first got there I met up a friend and went to the bar to grab a drink, there were three girls sitting on the picnic table in the middle, I went back to my friend and told him that I was going to approach them so I went over there pretty scared and sat down on the other side of the table and was like  " what's up guy's how's it going" and one answered that it was going well (the one in the middle was cuter than the ones on the outside prob a 7 or .  Then I was like " what's up with these bartenders they get up on the bar but don't dance" and then one showed me that she had gotten a shirt from them because they were passing them out.  I tried to keep the conversation going and couldn't it was a big picnic table and was loud, so I was like nice meeting you guys and then just left.  Then me and my friend went to Dave and Busters and met up some other friends and while they were playing I went up to a four set that was sitting down at a high top (there were 2 sevens and the rest don't really need to be rated) and set my beer down on the table.  I was like " what are you guys up to" they responded that they were just meeting up they hadn't seen each other in a few years, and then we got to talking about how they met in high school and when they were like went all went to corona I was like "I can't even talk to you guys anymore" they all thought it was funny.  we talked for a few more minutes about the same boring stuff like what their jobs were, and when I could tell the convo was dwindling down I was like nice to meet you guys maybe I will see you later, and just took off.
   The next place we went was Cadillac ranch, as soon as we got there we went to the patio, and there was this attractive blond girl at least an 8 with her friend who was a 6. They were up against the glass and looking out over the court yard.  I went up with "guys how's it going" and they were like not much just grabbing some drinks, I then teased them for staring this girl down and was like " do you want me to take her out?" then told them a funny story about my brother getting pissed about losing his DVD and blaming it on me then finding it a minute later in his own DVD case.  I talked to them for another 10 minutes and joked around and teased them, the convo was going really good, then the blonds sister came up and said they were leaving I asked where they were going then got the 6's number because the blond left too fast.   I then went to the next set which was right next to the dance floor I could barely hear them but there was a 7 and a 6 and they both kept pulling me in and talking in my ear I stayed there for five minutes and then left , i then talked to a 2 more sets of girls at the bar before leaving, they didn't turn into long convos though, o well got 6 sets for the night gotta start somewhere.
Last Wednesday I went to dos with some friends and immediately after getting there opened a three set that was sitting down at a picnic table by just sitting down with them.  we talked for a while and then my friends (2 other guys) came over and joined the conversation it was all going well and I was teasing this girl that she was going to have to take me to Vegas next week with her tax return,  but these girls knew like every guy in the bar so they were constantly being distracted then they got up to do the cupid shuffle, and we took off to American Junkie.  When we got there I opened this girl right behind us in line and just chatted about where they had been before, and how cold it was. When we went inside then to the patio and saw these girls sit down an 8 and her friend a 6.  I went over and sat down with them and opened by saying " ya its really cold outside I should have brought my sweater but then nobody could see MY FUCKING RIPPED ABBS"  this little bit of self deprecating humor got me in and I kept talking to them about how you can never be too jacked or tan for Scottsdale, and the second that you are... you're not .  Then they asked me my name and where I was from and we talked for about 8 more minutes, and  then I had to go back inside I was actually too cold.  I was now in state I walked around looking for my friends and went up to this girl walking the other direction with a high five and she did the hang loose, she was an 8 and walking with her friend the other direction, they then told me a funny joke that where do the puppy's go and they then put out there fist and were like to the pound.  I should have kept talking to them or pulled them aside but didn't, and they kept going the other direction.  The last set I opened was on the dance floor and these two girls were the only two dancing I was like you guys are awesome and somewhere along the lines of  I like it you are way confident, we talked for like 2 seconds then I left, it was really loud.
Thursday only 2 sets tonight  the first one was in the crowded part of the bar and some girl a 7 was walking through and I was like "what's up me and these other guys are having a competition to see who can get the most jacked before spring break what do you think"  showing her us three then " we have been working out tanning and throwing up after every meal", she started laughing we talk for a few minutes but it's in a walkway so it doesn't last long as soon as I start talking to my other friend she takes off but says bye.  I open a girl who comes out to the patio that asks my friend for a cigarette about the same way and she is cracking up we talked for about 10 minutes then she disappears to get a drink never to be heard from again.
I'm going out tonight and the only rule is there are no rules ...well if you can get yourself into state there really are none

[bigbear86]

March 14, 2010
   Saturday night, I opened 8 sets the first one really blew me out I went up to the bar and was like "hey what's up", and cheers them they were like how's it going, then one of the guys they were with came up and they said that they had to show him around gradually getting more and more quiet.  then I left, and immediately went to the patio went over to these 2 girls an 8 and a 1 and cheers them, but one didn't have a beer so I was like "where's your beer?" and then "I'm like the instigator" and joked about how we are back in high school, they loved it we talked and joked around and I told them about a cake that I made that made me feel sick and did some other of my routine's, the 8 told me to find her later that night, but she had to get back to her friends.
I opened a 4 set next one two 7's and two nothings, as soon as I cheers them one of the girls grabs my beer  and tells me that I should buy two of them shots, she's obviously drunk.  To this I laugh and say I don't buy anyone shots, this one girl the hot one stays with me and her friends go to the dance floor.  She already knows the joke I use and my friend comes up, then she starts joking about how that was a lame attempt, and I start to feel the pressure, I start joking with my friend and get the convo back to normal, her friend comes back and we talk to her for a minute and then leave.
My friend see's this guy behind me go open this set and he's like not even talking to these girls,  he sits there for 5 minutes then leave, I immediately go in like hey guys "I'm round two", immediately I'm in and talk to them about just bull shit, they are like "ya that other guy didn't have anything to say" and I say "where is my wing man he should have been here 10 minutes ago", and "that's all the lines I got and I have to go", act like I'm leaving and then come right back they all think this is funny, one is now really into me and asking me all these questions, the others are board, I tell them that I have to go get my friends to talk to them and then they are like ok you have 10 seconds,  I'm gone for 2 minutes and then they leave because I see them across the bar Damn.
I go and talk to the girl who told me to come back and get her, and try to location bounce, but she's staying here with all her friend's.  we go to the next bar and I open these girls at the bar and talk for like 10 minutes, the one who is into me is a fatty so we bounce out of that, then I opened 2 more sets one that responded well but was not very attractive, then go to the sub place and open one last set in line before calling it a night.

[bigbear86]

Monday March 15, 2010
   Went to martini ranch last night and opened 4 sets, the first one while we were in line. We got there at 11 and had to wait in this long line for 20 mins, as soon as I got there I opened the girls in front of us and was just like "what are you guys up to", they were both 6's but one had big boobs, I threw some jokes and stories that I had been working on and they responded well, they talked to us for 20 minutes till we were at the front, then we parted ways.
   At this point my juices were flowing and I was definitely feeling in state, it's such a crazy shift to see sometimes that when you first get out you are scared shitless and the bar seems like such a scary place, but then after that first good interaction your perception dynamically shifts to a place that is fun and full of possibilities', you can even start to view yourself as being more attractive.  Does anyone else agree with me on this?
   The next set is a mom and her daughter, her mom is a 6 but has a nice body and she's a 7.  I go up and cheers them work some of my stories and jokes on them then notice that the daughter has extremely small hands and notice a good chance to do Kino so I put my hand up next to hers and am like we would make a good couple my hand fits perfectly over yours, ( I was thinking about saying your hand would make my cock look huge , a little self deprecating humor, but didn't because I thought it was a little over the top, but I have used it before)
then I keep talking and doing more kino, and my buddy who is keeping her mom interested is like lets go upstairs, he got her mom's number and I got her's, but of course she is leaving back to Utah tomorrow bc that's where she lives. 
   The next set I went up to was upstairs and two 8's I went with my ripped abs opener and It just sounded to canned looking back, they gave me about 2 min's and then had to go to the bathroom.
I put this in short term memory and went down stairs opened a 5 set by the heat lamps with " you guys are greedy stop hogging all the heat" this turned into a 20 minute convo with pretty much every girl in
the group, and the one that I was talking to and into was there with her boyfriend I'm pretty sure. There was another 8 in the group and I should have pursued it more  but my friend was wanting to go. 
As we were leaving we saw the mom and daughter from the beginning of the night and tried to get a location bounce but the mom was way too drunk.  The daughter told me to call her some time and we should hang when she comes back to AZ.  Any good ideas on how to location bounce would be greatly appreciated!

[bigbear86]

march 20 2010
Went out last night and opened the first set had them for about a 5 minutes talking about the mechanical bull and other stuff then lost them, as my friends show up.
Opened another set that failed of older ladies they were just listening to the music I said I was going to through a beer bottle into the middle of the dance floor when I left, and jump into the middle off the side rail.  then opened two 7's and they went well and hooked then we talked for a while and they left, don't remember exactly what I said.  Then opened the set right next to them which was a boring group one 7 and one 6 then ejected but at least it got me into state.  I went out after that with some of my girlfriends and danced and drank the night away, I really think I had a chance with one but didn't make a move and didn't get a number but I'll see her again she's friends with my friends.
I need to start going for the number I think even if its not a very strong connection this way I can at least start working on my phone game

[bigbear86]

Heres how it went,  I went to pick up my friend then we headed to a bar out in Chandler I opened the first set with hey how it going and talked to them for like 2 minutes they were both 7's and they were disinterested then before we left I opened one more set and sat down with them and they opened up and joked with me for about 5 mins, then I found my friends and we headed to mill. As soon as we got to the first bar I opened a set by setting down with them and talked to them a 7 and a 6 with my friends for 20 mins.  Then opened another set outside which happened to be this girl that I already knew, then we hoped to another bar and I started talking to a 7 and an 8 who were really open to me.  That wore off after 5 mins and I talked to these other girls a 6 and an 8 opening with "I like the jacket" and just rolling on it from there talking about how we all had to salute my friend because he got an AMF .  Then I went up another 2 set and said "hows it going" but the girl next to them actually must have heard me because she said good how are you, she then gave me a drink of her drink and told me to guess what it was, and we talked for another minute, and then her friend was like "are you serious" and I was like "are you serious" and then she was back with " are you serious" then me in a really gay tone with my hands out like a TRex "are you serious " this went a couple more rounds until I had them laughing their asses off her friend being an 8. We talked for like another minute then they left when they saw their girlfriends. 
I was now in state and just started talking to everyone on the patio, I opened another girl with " It's not good to text after 12, and its 1201" and she was like "ya I know" and then I was like "but then after 1 it's ok to start it up again" and this got a good laugh. We went to a few more bars and I opened 4 more sets and actually got 2 numbers one was from a girl I had actually known before but hey at least I'm getting somewhere.  I didn't make my 25 approaches last week because I was sick but hope to this week I have 13 more to make tonight to seal the deal.  I really am looking for a wingman if anyone is interested let me know.

[asmokindeal]

I was now in state and just started talking to everyone on the patio, I opened another girl with " It's not good to text after 12, and its 1201" and she was like "ya I know" and then I was like "but then after 1 it's ok to start it up again" and this got a good laugh.

I recently heard a natural respond to a similar situation and it was pretty money...

"My mom always told me that texting after 10 is a booty call."

It got a good laugh and turned the interaction towards the sexual.

[bigbear86]

March 28, 2010
Ya man it is a good one, I actually used it more than one time that night and it hooked later.  Its just a funny little thing you can do, one girl actually got upset with me, but hey it worked 3 out of 4 times so I'm not complaining.

   I went out to watch the fight last night and opened 3 mixed sets, and one actually hooked they were just right next to me and I cheers them and they opened we talked for like 5 minutes.  I opened two more sets one that was a 7 and a 6 and we talked for 10 mins, about what we would do if we won the lottery and just some other fluff.  The night ended with me talking to my friends girlfriend that she met up, she was a 7 maybe an 8 and I was doing good with the attraction stuff, she was like "are you going to be fun" and I was like "are you going to be fun, do you even know who you're talking to"  It got a good laugh and I could tell she was into me we talked for like 20 minutes and I even had her isolated.  then we left and I got her number, we all went back to an after party at one of her friends houses, but when we got there I just ran out of stuff to say.  This really sucked and after all of us talked about boring stuff like windows operating systems for like 30 minutes I excused myself to go home.   I have to think of a better game plan next time I just totally went blank, it's like as soon as she was attracted to me I just ran out of stuff to say... but I still think we can still hang because she was attracted to me, so I am going call her next week sometime to go to the dog park like I told her we would.
Got 17 sets this week next week I have to get back to my 25 a week

[bigbear86]

Went out with my wing last Friday and we went to dos in old town Scottsdale, and a few other bars around the area.  I literally talked to almost every girl in the place and left the night with 15 opens and one phone number. 
When I got out to Scottsdale I got on one of those carts on a bike with 3 other cougars. Which of one was attractive, they paid and we went to one of the bars called Devil's advocate which was dead.  I met my wing there and we went to Dos where I opened the first lady, a cougar 39 years old but smoking hot I honestly give her an 8, with "you gotta take those shots with your mouth" (she had ordered a blow job) then she told me that I should and I told her that I would if she ordered me one, so she ordered me one and I did.  We got into a convo for about 10 minutes and I even held her hand telling her that she should be my girlfriend for 5 minutes.  Then we left and I didn't get her number because I thought I would see her later but I didn't and should have. 
My wing opened a set right after and I opened a guy who brought me in to talk to his girls and then throughout the night opened many many more, a few even on the dance floor and one almost made out with me she was being super touchy but then this guy called her over and I could tell that she was super wasted, so its probably a good thing that I didn't.  After she got me all horney it was hard to focus on anything, and defiantly affected my opening for the next 30 minutes, and my focus.   Well that's all for now I have been trying to hit my 25 a week but only got to 22 last week.  All together I am now at 91 opens since getting back into the game, and will keep pressing on.

[bigbear86]

May 7, 2010
   So went out last Thursday with a girl that I had met on Tuesday at saddle ranch, I met her up at Dos Gringos in Chandler then we went to Devil's Advocate , and she was with her brother and they didn't want to wait so I just went in because some of my girlfriends were already there I talked to them pretty much the whole night and opened one other set. Then on Friday night I went to mill and successfully opened 7 sets and ended up meeting up with one of my girlfriends and making out with her on the dance floor, she's a 7, this thanks to a combination of me being in state and just building up my confidence over repeated nights of going out.  On Saturday I met up with FlashAZ and we talked about game a little and I opened 3 sets, it is such an amazing thing that one night you can be totally in state and the next night you are in your own head and can't seem to get out, that's how Saturday night went. He actually opened quite a few set's.
   I then went out for the ASU Undie Run and had a blast and was once again into state.  I opened 6 sets and just went up to girls like " you better not beat me"  or "what place are you going to get"   I think that throwing the first three or four set's away has really started to help me just to not get into my own head, usually if I can just make myself keep opening someone will hook. 
   I met a girl down there a 7 and just hit it off,  after I could tell she was into me I ran my routine of taking her hand and being like we should be boyfriend and girlfriend... (pause) for five minutes.  Then asked if she was the jealous type because I don't date girls that are jealous.  And immediately had her qualifying herself like "no I'm really laid back and just want to have fun".  I didn't get her number yet but danced a little with her.  I see her at the bar later that night and we talk about bullshit for 20-30 minutes then I brought her outside, saying that I need to get some fresh air, looked her in the eyes and made out with her. 
   I get her number and we meet up a few days later at a bar on mill,  she actually looks better than she did the first time.  We talk for about an hour and a half then I tell her that she has to come to my house to see my dog ( I hyped him up a lot, he actually does some cool tricks), she agrees and follows me to my house.  I take her to my room turn on a scary movie and open a bottle of wine.  The funny thing is that she only pets my dog for like 2 seconds, she doesn't even care lol.  We talk and give hand massages and make out hardcore like 4 or five times, with me always pushing away. At 330 she has to go home, didn't get a close but we will hang out again.
   Some internal struggles I have been having is that my ex has been calling and texting me a lot that she misses me and wants to hang out, I try to ignore this because I know it's not what I really want but it is a total mind fuck. 

[poelectrix]

Stay strong about the whole ex issue man. I've been really tempted to call mine up lately and chat but I know it's not a good idea, its just comfortable. I don't know what your whole situation is but I definitely can relate man.

[bigbear86]

Thanks man ya it is tough sometimes it really messes with my head.  But I decided not to hang out with her wasn't happy in the relationship and wont be happy going back to it just comfortable

[bigbear86]

May 24, 2010
I went out last Wednesday and opened 7 sets most I just was like hey how's the night going. One set I just went up and set down with and it went pretty well, then another set these two girls were like "you stop it, no you stop it" and hitting each other playfully, so I went in and was like no you stop it and hit one of them playfully and it opened, and we talked for a while one was being rude so I was like "so she's the nice one" it went over really funny .   I opened another set at the bar that was just sitting standing there, and I don't remember exactly what I did but I remember mocking a lot of this girls motions, and just being really silly.  she told me that I was funny and she was a 7.5, I was getting her number when I realized that my buddy took my phone and I was like shit because she didn't have her phone either so I told her I would get it later that night trying to play it all cool, but didn't see her again .
I went out with FlashAZ on Saturday and opened 10 sets actually getting shut down pretty hard a few times, but defiantly had a few successes getting a number and just getting into a more positive state.  Before I went out I kept trying to get out of it and finding any excuses that I could but told myself no that I would just do it that I have made a commitment to this and have to do it.  Its so amazing how you can be in such a bad state and then go out and take action and you feel so good after, even though I got shut down a few times,  I got a number and many did work out for the better.  I am beginning to see that if you don't take action you won't get anything, you can sit around and read all day but if you don't take the action toward your goal it will never be realized.

[bigbear86]

June 15, 2010 LR
Went to Vegas with 2 of my best friends last weekend and we tore shit up,  got there at 4 on Friday morning checked into New York New York, and passed out.  Woke up at 11 and got something to eat, then headed to the pool at our hotel, which wasn't that great. BUT there was one set just sitting on the edge of the pool this girl was a 7.5 and she was there with her boss an older lady in her 40's who was not to bad considering her age, and one other lady who was their co worker , who was not attractive at all.  I opened them with "hey guys how's it going", and just kept plowing through when they seemed like they were loosing interest, introduced them to my friends, then got the girls number and told her that we would party later.
   After that we headed to Mandalay Bay, because they have a sick pool.   On the way there I opened about three girls with " hey guys what's going on" , or  "what are you kids up to"  got some good responses and more importantly got me into the talkative state which is all I'm trying to do at this point,  I always try and through the first 4 away, and not take them to seriously because they just help me to get into state.  We get to the pool and my friend  opens this 3 set with a 6, a 7, and an 8, but the 8 is in a serious relationship, it's me and 2 of my friends now, we chat them up for a bit then I open a 6 set but they are all married!!! damn being near sighted, but they are actually pretty cool and we talk to them and bullshit for 10 mins, it actually really pumped my state, I open 2 more sets and we head back to the hotel,  no more numbers or hooks really. 
   We get ready for the night and all head out there's 6 of us now, my bro and his 2 friends came up as well.  I immediately start mass opening and open 3 sets the last group is actually sitting down and gambling, there is a 7 and an 8 in the mix. We get them to come to ROK House this club in the NYNY and my friend meets this guy who gave us his name to get in first, there is 10 of us with the girls and in a mass line outside we go straight to the front and are literally the first ones in.  I just got a text from the girl I met at the pool and she wants to meet up so she is headed down to the club.  I am currently escalating with this redhead the 8 in the group of girls that we met and am doing the whole do you want to be bf/gf for 5 mins and how do you like to hold hands routine, she is qualifying herself to me saying that she works at a law firm and has 3 jobs and is independent and shit, and I'm like that is cool as shit.  She leaves to go get a drink, and finds me 5mins later and says that there is all these creepy guys hitting on her and she is glad I am normal.  Just then who shows up but the first set of the day and the 7.5 def looks like at least an 8 all done up, we just start bullshitting and the other redhead  that I was talking grabs her friends who all my friends are talking to and leaves.  I don't know if she was pissed about me talking to another girl or what but she defiantly gets a stick up her ass within 2.5 seconds, and after examination later that night with my friends they seem to agree with me. 
   So this girl and me are talking and I suggest going up to my room and taking a shotgun (the beers here are 7 dollars), and she agrees, as long as we can take a shot of goldschlager in her room, and of course I disagree... SIKE I grab her by the hand and go up to my room shotgun a beer, and go to her room and take 2 shots of goldschlager which got me drunk in about 5 minutes.  We then head to Studio 54 a club in the MGM and meet up my friends, She says she has to go meet up her friend, I'm pretty sure another guy,  so I'm gradually getting more touchy feely and just pull the trigger and go in for the make out and we proceeded to make out like 3 or 4 more times IN LINE, and then she says she really has to go, I let her go bc I don't want to look 2 needy and we make plans to meet up at the pool tomorrow.  At this point it is not even 1130 and we head into Studio 54 which is a pretty cool club, It is really loud and almost all dance floor though I open a few in here but am not really a dancer so we stay for 30mins, then head back to the ROK house.  In there I proceed to open a mass number of girls even opening them on the dance floor and start dancing with one and within 2 minutes we are making out she is a 7,  after that I dance with this 36 year old that's a 7 she has a nice body  that I opened earlier on the strip, who recognizes me and I  keep trying to go for the make out, but it's not happening, she says I'm cute and I get her number and we plan on meeting up the next day,  it's now almost 3 and one of my friends has a group of three girls, and another has a group of 2 come up and after party its badass we play drinking games, a few of them are making out one gets laid and we all crash.
Wake up Saturday at 11 we are all pretty rough,  I meet up the goldschlager girl from the night before, and my buddies meet up these 2 girls from the night before in the hot tub.  There is this fat asian guy who is drunk as shit and is talking shit and calls us douchbags, but in a funny way so we can't get mad then the calls the 2 blond girls we are with dirties.  We just ignore him it actually turned into a good joke for the rest of the trip.  We all head back up to our rooms and change and goldshlager brings her 2 friends along with the 2 blondys and its me and my 2 friends and we head down the strip to this place called BILLS where we proceed to get absolutely FUCKED UP because they have 5 dollar pitchers.  3 hours go by and I notice that goldschlager is texting this guy a lot I think it's the same one that she met last night, that she ditched me for, I start to get into a bad state thinking that I might lose her but then just think, hey it's not like I'm trying to make her my gf I just want to get laid. I start giving more hugs over stupid shit and take her by the hand and we hold hands all the way back to the casino and make out in the elevator then we change and go down to the pool with some more goldschlager.  Its closed due to rain but we sneak into the hot tub and take a few more shots of goldschlager then make out and dry fuck for like 20 mins.  I tell her to come back to my room and watch T.V she does and I fuck her brains out.     

[asmokindeal]

Great report!  Inspiring!

[bigbear86]

June 19, 2010 LR
   Holy Fuck, that being said I'm going to give 2 LR's in one here because they have happened back to back the last 2 nights and with TWO different girls.   First off I'm going to give mad credit to my wing man Dab Hand, who is by far the most LEGIT guy that I have met on the forum yet, and  I have been out with more than 10 guys now. He is fearless and willing to approach mad sets, his game is very direct and he cuts the bullshit very quick and is just a motha fucking badass...
   Sooooooo let's start with Wednesday night I went out and met Dab Hand at Devil's Advocate and we opened a few sets each just some warm ups.  I opened this first set and talked for like 15 minutes it was a three set, nothing special but it's how I like to do it, REMEMBER I throw away the first three to five sets at this point you are not even in the talkative state and are not even coming off near as confident as you will if you can KEEP opening  till the end of the  night. This is JUST a theory but if you look at my last 2 nights you will see that it is at LEAST somewhat valid as the last girls of the night that I approached were the SNL.   There were three girls and two of them were like "we're going to the bar to get shots",  and the more attractive girl that I was talking too was leaving and saying bye that she will talk to me later, and I was like " you should just stay here and talk to me, your friends know where to find you" and she agreed and stayed, at this point I could defiantly tell that there was attraction. This girl was somehow intimidated by me a little though, because no matter what I did I couldn't keep eye contact for more than a split second and she was looking down when she was talking to me.  I did the whole boyfriend/girlfriend routine and talked to her for like 10 more minutes before going in and finding Dab Hand, got her number and bounced, she actually started texting me later that night and we're supposed to meet up for drinks sometime this weekend. 
   We bounced to mill and started at Cue Club, where between the two of us we probably opened just about every set in the place, no pulls no numbers, FUCK IT we are getting into a great state and talking to mad bitches, and hot ones.  Go next door to Zuma we proceeded to do the same thing there Dab Hand is talking to this girl in the middle of line and she's loving him.  I talk to this 8 on the patio who works in the industry and is out alone, and get burned by some girls cigarette that's standing next to me about three times, damn drunk BITCH.  That interaction goes nowhere so I open a three set and talk for a few minutes.  We Bounce to vintage and Dab Hand is quick to open the first set we see and at this point I have opened probably 15 sets, I go to the patio and am about to just stop openingbecause the nights almost done, but I see one more set and go over with high energy start talking to them ones a 7, the other is a 6 and I don't realize it yet but find out later that I loosely know her through friends.
   We talk and the 7 tells me that her names princess and she is 24, they are out for her friend's birthday and I call her a cougar, she laughs, Dab Hand comes over and I introduce them he tells her that he is a prince, funny shit.  I keep talking to Princess and while doing so am keeping abnormally long eye contact,  they want to go dance and are leaving.  I LITERALLY swoop this girl up off her feet and carry her for a few seconds,  I am literally in STATE like a motha fucka, I can do no harm.  I let them go to the dance floor and meet up with them in a few minutes I call Princess a horrible dancer and she says to show her then, I pull her in and start grinding on her ass. We go to the bar to get shots and tell her she should buy me one she does.  At this point I put it all together and can tell this chick is into me, as the bartender is pouring the shots right in front of us I pull her in and we make out, we take the shots and I get her number. Her and her friend are about to take off she calls me a little guy I am 5"7' and she is taller than me in heels ,  I respond "so why are you attracted to little guys?" we make out again and she leaves I meet back up with Dab Hand who is getting this girls number, and we bounce and I see her outside she calls me a little cub and I call her a cougar.  We leave and in 15 minutes I get a text from her asking if this is her little cub.  I respond "haha yup what are you up to" she texts " I am getting dropped off maybe just maybe you should come over"  I respond " I might be down for that"  I tell her to text me directions she does I call her and she gives me better directions I meet up at her house get out of the car and immediately start making out with her in the front of the house. 
   We go inside and start dry fucking on her bed I gradually start to finger her and keep making out, and dry fucking for 20 minutes she is giving mad resistance to me taking her pants off, so I tell her we are going too fast and need to cool off for a minute. She  grabs us two waters and wer back at it finally I finger the shit out of her and pull her pants off I fuck her that night for like 20 minutes. And we wake up and do it again in the morning.  I am literally on cloud 9 leaving her house and go work  out and pick up a shift at 930 at work running on 4 hours of sleep. 
   SO I am by no means a master PUA or anything there's just some stuff that I'm seeing that is really helping my game out that I would like to share maybe it can help all you other guys out, maybe not.   The biggest things I took from that night are:
 1. Extreme eye contact It's not so much what you're saying but how you are saying it.  The eyes can say so much about you and generate that attraction that you need.
2. Like I said THROW the first 5 sets away, they are not as important just helping you get into that talkative confident state,  every night this last week that I have had success I have opened at least 12 -15 sets, the same with my wing we opened so many we literally lost track of how many sets we had. 
3.  Don't think just open, the best way to get into your own head is to think too much about what you're doing and sit back and say "I'm going to open, I'm going to open, I'm going to open",  just do it and do it as much as you can with as many girls as you can.  My wing Dab Hand is VERY good at this every bar or club that we go into he almost always opens the first group of girls that he see's IMMEDIATLY without thinking about it.   AND if this makes sense DON'T let yourself talk to yourself about yourself,  what I mean by this is when you are out you constantly have thoughts where you are talking to yourself and saying things like "I'm not in a good state" or " I need to open" or whenever you leave a  group of girls and your thinking "man I FUCKED up I didn't do this or that right" or any time when you are analyzing what you are doing when you are at the club.  Don't get me wrong this is all good to do but save it for later, how can you have all your resources and be able to talk to a girl and generate attraction while you are simultaneously having a conversation in your own head!!!  It just doesn't work as well.
That's all for now I gotta go eat I will post about the other LR from last night later