Last night was way fun, good turn out, new people...but...I find myself sticking to sarging with people I'm most comfortable with
Honestly, though I have had some recent successes, I am far from where I want to be with this shit and I tend to stick with people I have been out with more, which is natural but at the same time kinda lame.
Regardless of my issue though, last night was a blast, some progress times definitely occurred and the night ended in a blur/not wanting to screw up funtimes and end on a high note.
One thing that was really cool out there was the whole "go ahead" attitude. Multiple dudes out there were like "no no no, go hit on her to, its not a big deal, there's plenty more out there" and "my names not tattooed on her ass" i.e. abundance mentality and chillness. No jealousy or getting pissed off because I mean cmon, when theres like 10 dudes rolling up in the same venue, girls gonna get hit on more than once. Its like if you're not dragging the girl out to fuck her that night then every man for himself unless you're winging, then standard rules apply.
Very cool attitude and very cool people, don't think there was one person there last night I wouldn't chill and have a beer with, or go sarge with, it's just kinda tough when there are so many dudes out there.
Hope everyone else had as much fun and blowouts as I did haha.
