I’ve spoken to and listened to Tyler talk at workshops about Buying Temperature. If you have read his posts about it you know how he goes deep into social programming and talks about how women pull themselves out of state through doing things such as going back into logical conversation.
Whether or not the theory is accurate I don’t care because in practice it works. Tyler’s theory is that women are naturally sexual creatures and they instinctually want to mate with alphamales. However, through social programming they feel that if they follow these urges they are a S-L-U-T. Therefore, subconsciously, when they feel their buying temp raising, and feel themselves losing control they will do everything possible to pull themselves out of state. The theory makes sense to me, and I even discuss topics like this with women…. BUT I will state again that really what matters is how effective this is when put into practice.
There are also points of opportunity for progressing the sarge (phase shifting) as this buying temp escalates.
AMOGs know what raises a woman’s buying temp, and they know what shut’s it down. I doubt that any of them truly understand why, but they know it works. The main way that an AMOG snaps her out of state is to pull you into a logical convo in front of her…. and then proceed to run game to convey value and bring her back into state with him.
Notes on what does and does not raise Buying Temp
- Logic kills attraction. Logic controls social programming. EMOTIONS create attraction and raise Buying Temp. Emotions DO release chemicals in the brain, which are often diffictult to differentiate from attraction.
- Getting them giggling/laughing is less about raising buying temp, and more about giving them a reason to stay in set. Humour and Intrigue is less about attraction and more about holding the set and getting them to listen. I often forget this principle and become waaay too entertaining in set and lose the opportunity of the reaching the Hook-Point to escalate.
- Setting up validation processes. Baiting her to continually validate herself to you raises attraction.
- Push-Pull. This is where you convey, either directly or otherwise that you dig her, but quickly follow by conveying that you don’t.
- Cocky & Funny
- Kino, and escalating sexually
- Women’s girlfriends are very keyed in to each others buying temps, and they purposely pull them away or do certain things to snap their freind out of state. On the rare occasion you will game an HB and her friends are cool because they know that she wants to get laid.
Is Raising Buying Temp Enough On It’s Own?
With some types of women YES. With others, and I think the majority NO. This is why you need to simultaneously build other elements. These other elements include; Conveying value and social status, Building comfort and trust, conveying sexual subcommunication, have her perceive you as being the fuck of a lifetime.
Although I mentioned Vlidation in the Buying Temp notes above, I want to add something here. Mystery talks about how with club super hotties, even when you run really tight game they can lose interest. This is because they are soooo socially proofed/validated. They have super-HSE. Therefore, Mystery discovered that by adding in a jealousy sub-plot into his interactions he maintained intereset from such HB’s. This is actually triggering a very strong Validation mechanism.
I’m sure you can relate to this. Say you’re out with a pivot or just an HB friend, and she mentions this new guy that she really likes, or perhaps calls the guy in front of you. Then even if you are not attracted to her you feel somehow more attracted. This does work really well on women. Part of my new gameplan is to calibrate as to whether I need a jealousy subplot, and if so bring one in.
I’ll write more thoughts on this, but right now I’m in a coffee shop and my laptop battery is low.
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