Posts Tagged ‘Masterful Lover’

I get a lot of email from guys who are trying to give their women her first orgasm.

Question

Hello, and may I say, if ever I believe there is an instructional book on sex I would pick up, I think it would be yours – you have incredible writing and I can totally identify with a lot of your techniques from what I have read.

I was always a very sensitive guy who put a priority on a woman’s pleasure and have had quite a bit of success. Of course, varying degrees of success with picking up women, but hey, what can you do.

Anyways, a girlfriend of mine and I were discovering what makes her feel the best, as I am trying very hard to be the first guy to make her cum, and I usually have little or no difficulty with that, however she seems to get very close but not enough to seal the deal I guess. Well through some finger exploring I happened upon what I believe was the ‘back of the deep spot’ which was quite far in and more or less felt like I was massaging the back of her pelvic bone. She had a tremendous response to this and had quite an episode, although she claimed still did not orgasm… ok, ok, basically my question is: do you have any references or other sources of info on the deep spot or any other pointers you feel I should know. I’d very much appreciate it and thank you for your devotion to the subject. Most guys should be ashamed of themselves thinking they ‘please’ their girlfriends. Thanks again C.B.

Yes, the back of the deep spot is very powerful. (Editor: See it explained here.. in our video section or learn from the master himself at his website)

But I have to ask you: how do you know she didn’t come? Did you ask her if she came? I hope not, because you should never ask a woman if she has had an orgasm.