Posts Tagged ‘The Game’

I speak with authority when I tell you that this book is absolutely fantastic, and a must read for both men and women. First off The Game is an extremely well written and fascinating book that you will both find captivating and humorous throughout.

Women will discover the truth about what guys go through to learn how to become the type of man that they are attracted to. Men, whether in the seduction community or not, will discover truly amazing insights into the social dynamic that has to take place in order for women to feel attraction for you, or as they like to call it, “chemistry.” In fact I am actually concerned about some of these techniques getting out to the general public.

So what makes me such an expert you might ask? Well, if you haven’t guessed already I am a member of this so called `secret society,’ of this seduction subculture, and have been through my own similar journey as described by Neil (Style) in this book. I was in fact one of the founding members of Project Hollywood (PH), and met with Neil at Chicken A-Go-Go in LA to discuss the original PH financial plan along with Papa. Many of the characters in this book are personal friends of mine. I vouch for it’s validity of both plot line and of effectiveness of the seduction tactics.

Source: The Seduction Community Archives Author: Tyler Durden

Now when it comes to the idea that “if a girl disrespects me I’ll NEXT her”, that isn’t my frame at all. To me, you can’t NEXT a girl who you haven’t slept with.

I get a phone call from an ex-girlfriend that I’m still close with. We still hook-up, but I value her more as someone who I can talk to now. I think that may change when I stop travelling and I’m around more. For some reason, she’s an anomaly who is very self aware of her tendencies. That is, as opposed to most girls I meet, who only offer useless socially conditioned rhetoric, whenever you ask them about male/female interaction.

Over the course of the conversation, the topic of dating comes up. I ask, “What does it mean when you meet up with a guy, have a great time, maybe even kiss, but then when he calls you don’t go out with him? Like you make up excuses and don’t return his calls.”

She replies, “Well there’s this guy, Chris, who I met the other night. I really liked him. I offered him my number. He called me the other night, and asked me to meet up. I told him ‘You know what, I think I actually will. Let me call you back.’ I really wanted to meet up. For some reason I never did though. The thing is, that I can feel the emotion that I felt when I gave him my number, at the time that we’re talking on the phone. But the second we hang up, poof, it’s gone. Also, I actually have scheduling issues. It’s not like this is someone who I’m already friends with, who I’d give priority to. This is some new person that I barely know. If he happens to catch me at the right time, I’d go out with him. But I won’t take the time or go out of my way to return his calls. I don’t call guys.”

Author: Tyler Durden Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast.advanced Subject: Social Intelligence – vibing Date: Wed, 10 Sep 2003 07:22:00 -0400

To me, this is a very important post.

Social Intelligence. Having struggled so hard to learn it, I have so much to say on this topic. In this post I’d like to specifically discuss social vibing and insecurity (a very focused, but important peice of the puzzle).

There are many subcommunications that are being telegraphed at all times in any interaction. Both verbal and non-verbal.